kissing bugs me...what to do

[oldskool83]

this is odd, never ran into this before but a girl i been spending a lot of time with cant kiss worth a damn. i don't wanna be mean but it bugs me. everything else is fine, im trying to over look it but, at the same time think how i could get her to control that toung. it does not help shes got a toung ring (IMO so 10 years ago) any ideas, make me not wanna make out with her.

i dont wanna come out and say hey you suck and kissin and hurt her feelings but id like to try and correct it if i can.

[Mathias]

this is odd, never ran into this before but a girl i been spending a lot of time with cant kiss worth a damn. i don't wanna be mean but it bugs me. everything else is fine, im trying to over look it but, at the same time think how i could get her to control that toung. it does not help shes got a toung ring (IMO so 10 years ago) any ideas, make me not wanna make out with her.

i dont wanna come out and say hey you suck and kissin and hurt her feelings but id like to try and correct it if i can.

Turn it around to be about you. "I'm a little different than most, this is how I like to do it. What do you think?"

Easy enough?

[vashti]

Turn it around to be about you. "I'm a little different than most, this is how I like to do it. What do you think?"

Easy enough?

That is a very sensitive and compassionate way to handle it. You are a sweety.

I might add that I can't imagine kissing anyone with metal in their mouth.

oldschool - Do you have any crowns? You might tell her that the metal in her mouth is interacting with the metal inside your crown, making it a bit uncomfortable to kiss when they come in close contact. Maybe kissing you will be more important to her than retaining her tongue ring.

[oldskool83]

only metal in her mouth it the dumb toung ring, least the bar bells are plastic, no crown on either person.

i think her toungs just to big for her mouth honestly lol. i dont need the entire toung in my mouth, just a lil. thats what im bothered about.

[Wakeup]

Then tell her what you like by showing her. If showing her doesn't work then tell her what you like outright. A good lover (for you) is educated by you in what you like and dislike. A simple "less tongue baby, like this" is all it should take if said in a sexy way.

[LdFilip]

is it so hard to show her how to kiss?say to her "let me show you something,dont do anything..." and kiss her like never before...tongue ring or anything like that has nothing to do with kissing...you can believe,my gf has a that thing...

...and anyway "make me not wanna make out with her"...you kidding?...geez,think about yourself,you have a gf,what more you can wish for? -.-

[smackie9]

this is odd, never ran into this before but a girl i been spending a lot of time with cant kiss worth a damn. i don't wanna be mean but it bugs me. everything else is fine, im trying to over look it but, at the same time think how i could get her to control that toung. it does not help shes got a toung ring (IMO so 10 years ago) any ideas, make me not wanna make out with her.

i dont wanna come out and say hey you suck and kissin and hurt her feelings but id like to try and correct it if i can.

A good kisser is a must. Find someone else.

[LdFilip]

A good kisser is a must. Find someone else.

like everyone is born as pro kisser -.- get real

[oldskool83]

Shes not my g/f

[LdFilip]

it only seems,that she doesnt have much experiences with kissing,thats all.As i said,show her,show her some hot techniques and she will realize,that shes not as good as you are and shell try to do more.

[bulrush]

A good kisser is a must. Find someone else.

For some people, kissing takes more practice. I was always told I was a good kisser, right from my very first girlfriend. I thought they were just being polite, but people kept telling me I was really good. So, I guess I'm good.

I've never dated a girl with a tongue ring. I think it might be fun.

[oldskool83]

the toung ring is far from the issue, she just sucks at kissing. its that simple, ill say somthing this weekend.

[bulrush]

What exactly does she do? Are her lips too tense? Does she just sit there doing nothing? Can you give us some more details?

[oldskool83]

she uses too much tounge, like she dont really know how to frenchkiss and can get too outta control with the tounge, sticking way to much out, dont need 3" of tounge stuffed in my mouth.

[LdFilip]

she uses too much tounge, like she dont really know how to frenchkiss and can get too outta control with the tounge, sticking way to much out, dont need 3" of tounge stuffed in my mouth.

well...that sounds...um...interesting...haha (dream of many men)
...you can tell her if you cant show,but if so,do it in a human way...dont make her feel bad about it...