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    My Friends Problem.(He can't get a girlfriend).

    He has never had a girlfriend i've tryed to get him one but everyone has said no, i don't know how i can help him. has anyone got any ideas.
    Last edited by ziggy; 03-07-03 at 02:36 AM.

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    Don't try to set him up. I'm guessing you are a girl and I know from personal experience that when a guy's female best friend tries to set him up it never works. Cause if the guys best friend is a girl that means he's not an asshole and girls don't like nice guys.
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    Um, scratch that last post, I just read your other thread and now I know you're a guy. These kinda things are all about timing. You can throw a million potential girls his way but if none are the right person at the right time he'll get one million "no"s. You can go on helping him and try setting him up just make sure you both know it's might happen tomorrow or it may never happen and for him to not get his hopes up or it'll hurt a lot more.
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    yeah i agree, you should let him try for himself and push as hard as he wants to for a relationship. however if you really insist on doing the job for him, why not introduce him to some of your friends? if you already have done that, then hrmm..it's a tough call. hit up the clubs and what not. raverbooy
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    Try a fair or carnival or something that involves a group of people. maybe u can find someone there. Its a wild shot, but its an option.
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    Why not just try the corner of North and Bermin ?

    I don't like people who try to 'set' other people up. You know why ? Because they usually end up ****ing them up, over, or just plain ****ing them.

    Mind your own business. Maybe he doesn't want to be like 'you' and your girlfriend/boyfriend. You don't know him like he knows himself.

    HOWEVER, there is nothing wrong with introducing him to other people WITH the INTENT of him making FRIENDS. Nothing more! If it goes further then that, it is because he wants it to.

    Otherwise, don't get involved with his love-life.
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    DOWN boy. Rear!
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    GRRRrrrrrr. Shafkore is a deep-core...uuuuh, dog. Mad dog. Doggie

    Why don't you just ask him if he has anyone on his mind, or maybe even a girl he already likes? If he doesn't then yeah, like everyone else said, just introduce him to some of your own friends, otherwise leave it like that.

    You should explain to him that he has to take charge over his life and not have sympathetic friends do it for him. Maybe then he'll become a real MAN. And girls like that.
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    Ziggy, if you were a girl, would you date your friend? Why, or why not?

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    No, I think hes annoying sometimes, he can be funny though

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    I got a friend like that. It's hopeless.
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