Okay, so a bit about me. I'm 21, single, last term at university. I am moving away to another province by the end of April. The girl, let's call her Becky, she's 18, just started university. Becky and I were not even mutual friends, we knew each other's existence, she believed that I was an ass, and I had no interest in her.
Anyhow, it all started when she got an account on an online social networking website, we started talking, we learned more about each other, 2 days in, she broke up with her boyfriend of over a year. Because she doesn't have feelings for him anymore.
Cut the story short:
1) She knows that I will be moving away
2) She knows that I was just in a relationship, and is not looking for one
3) She wants to lose her virginity to me
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01-03-12, 03:43 PM #1
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01-03-12, 11:24 PM #2
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Stay away from her. Her head is not in a good place right now because she is fresh out of a relationship, she is lonely and is faced with the big step of going to uni. When people are in that position they are emotionally weak (especially an 18 year old girl) and don't make very good choices. It's somewhat being a little self destructive. You don't know that much about her....she could turn psycho on you for talking to other girls, etc making your life miserable. The signs are all there so the smart thing to do is say thanks but no thanks.
I doubt very highly she is a virgin. She is just using that to sweeten the pot....yikes*
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02-03-12, 07:53 AM #3
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She wants to use you for a rebound. This is how some girls get over a guy. If not you, she will find somebody else, and pretty quickly.
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Therefore I should...?
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02-03-12, 07:13 PM #5
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I think smackie put it clearly enough, OP...
Originally Posted by smackie9
Not that it matters at all, but I reckon she might actually be a virgin and she wants to lose it before she goes to college.
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03-03-12, 02:26 AM #6
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Fair enough
Also, she is a virgin.
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03-03-12, 02:33 AM #7
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Be very careful when dealing with someone you don't know that well plus factoring in she is 18 and a virgin.......you have to think of the possible consequences. There's a chance she gets pregnant. Is she of legal age in your state and or country? She could get clingy on you and cause all kinds of s hit, she could accuss you of rape. Something to thinking about.
