A Short Question for You!

[obsessive_lover]

My gf tells me several times that I'm a perfect boy and that she's afraid of losing me and also that she can't believe that I'm her boyfriend etc. And that makes me sad and crazy because for me OK, she's beautiful, sweet, sympathetic, has a good personality but in fact I don't think that she is perfect and I 'believe' that she is my gf.

So the question is: if you're in love, do you HAVE To think it is hard to believe he/she is yours and he/she is absolutely perfect?? :S

[surfhb]

No....people who say things like that are often co-dependent with lo self esteem

[searock]

Only if you are still in the honeymoon phase, when you can't think straight yet. Once you've been dating for a while, rationality kicks back in and you realize that nobody is perfect, not even the person you are in love with. Maybe she's still in the honeymoon phase, or maybe she exaggerates a bit to compliment you.