Feel like a mug / moving away

[msport]

Hi all.

My other half told me today he applied for a job in australia and he will prob get it because its a basic job.

Thing is i asked him a few weeks ago did he apply and he denied it. i almost begged him to tell me the truth but he swore he didnt apply. i dont have a problem with him applying but hes keeping it from me.

The relationship isnt great anyway but hes said hes undecided weither he will take the job in aus or not. i feel like his fall back and really annoyed.

I dont know weither i should just break up with him after 5 years, he puts his family and own interests infront of me, regardless on how i feel about something, he will do what he wants. he always copys me aswell which is annoying. i just feel when he gets a job worth taking , he will just up at the last minute and leave me, regardness on how it affects me and he will give no notice

whats your views and opinions

[Jason2]

agree

[mwahahaha]

Australia is a great place, he ll have a ball. Sun, beaches, women, bear, neighbours. Dont worry about him, he ll be fine.

[Cerby]

Here is what you do:

1) If he gets it, tell him to have fun. Prepare to be dumped, but instead, dump him telling him Australia isn't for you and you're not interested. You look like the dumper and now he looks like he was running away from a broken heart.
2) If he doesn't get it, lose sh*t on him for trying to get it and not planning it with you, dump him anyways and send him packing. Anyone who would pull this stunt deserves to be dumped.

Either way the relationship is over, but both ways you come out a winner.

[Jason333]

many thanks