My bday as a cover to re-access an affair.

[DVR1]

Hi guys,

Next week is my bday, a very special bday and I think is a good occasion
to re-access a romantic affair with a woman I really like.

We were close enough, attraction was high sometimes, but with me being
passive and her hesitation (due her break up last year) things didn't move
forward that much . . . (we were "dating" for months).

She is a woman with a (very) serious health issue, my intentions are pretty
clear and she knows. But since she wasn't ready for anything serious we got
separate, and things went cold.

I would like to try to re-warm things with her but we 've been lost close contact
the last 3 months. Had a couple of phonecalls for some stuff and just a big
meeting with mutual friends.

I want to invite her for dinner for my bday (she knows it) and was wondering
if is too much of an "movement" for me to make, don't want to make her
feel extra pressure of me or something like a "stalker" to her.

Well, some times you need to act to see a reaction.

What you think guys?

[Little delights]

She won't see you as a stalker. If she did, that just very un reasonable of her. Go on and ask her! The worst that could happen is that she says no.

[IndiReloaded]

Good idea. Just make sure she doesn't feel any obligation to you b/c its your bday. I would say something like you had tickets to X, but your friend had to cancel, would she like to join you?

[Jason960]

Thanks for your post