Me & my partner have had issues (see previous logs for full history) but we have decided to try and make a go of a future together and accept that things may not turn out the way we planned and we still may end up going our separate ways.
There is a trust thing going on between us ( I don't trust her ) but she says she wants to make it work and there is still a huge connection between us both emotionally & sexually but she flicks between being totally attentive and completely distant.
I have an issue with her privacy/secrecy and if I'm being totally honest to myself who she is messaging etc (she has sent sexually graphic messages before to other men which is how this started) and she is fully aware of this as I have told her about my concerns.
Like I said, one minute she is cold and hiding her phone after using it ( I don't know what she was doing on it ) and the next she is crying in my arms saying she loves me so much and is a fool for hurting such a good guy and potentially losing me. I've asked her what she was doing and she casually shrugs it off as 'nothing'.
Although I'm a nice guy and sensitive I don't pretend that I understand women! Are there any ladies out there who can advise me as to what may be going on in her head as this is starting to become a giant wall in me wanting to move our relationship on?
**UPDATE**
I've asked her about what's going on and she says that she feels guilty for her actions and wants 'us' to be back to normal hence why she flips between hot & cold. I've realised that I was obsessing with her phone so I asked her about it, she lied about a couple of things and really played it down so here's another question for you - is she playing me?