I have really problems with flirting

**simon_328** · 14-06-12, 02:03 AM

Hi,

the thing is, that if I am honest I did it never so much, because actually the girl made almost the first step.
This step sayes to me, that this girl is interresting of me, and so everthing was much easier for me.

But as for now, when I am interresting about a woman and I know she too, but she is not doing the first step...what then...:-)?
I am a shy guy, and so everything is much harder for me.

which phrase are good start to flirting, or start a funny conversation to get know each other better?

sorry for my bad english..) I hope you understand all..

thanks to all
Simon

**HARVEY23** · 18-07-12, 07:44 AM

You must overcome yourself as being shy and try to get be confidence I guess that will works somehow.

**smackie9** · 18-07-12, 11:02 AM

Ask her out on a date and talk to her...that is what everyone one does. Once you get a little more comfortable you can start to do some flirting to make her feel attractive but don't shower her with too much attention. Be a little distant and let her chase you a bit too. This will build sexual tension between you, then after the second date move in for a kiss.

**oldskool83** · 21-07-12, 03:23 AM

yeah man, by 3rd date you need to get close, if not some other cock will find her

**Boisdevie** · 21-07-12, 04:32 AM

C'est simplement un question de confiance. Et ca c'est pas facile non plus. Mais il faut essayer et n'a peur - c'est impossible de reuisser tout le temps.

**smackie9** · 21-07-12, 05:48 AM

It is simply a matter of confidence. And that isn't easy. But we must try and not be afraid - it is impossible to win all the time.

**mindblow** · 21-07-12, 04:22 PM

firstly develop some confidence among yourself and talk to her and take her for some kind of shopping or dinner lunch and start sharing your feelings to her surely the day will come when you you will be getting proposed by her.