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Thread: Pretty good first date...what should I do about trying for a second?

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    Pretty good first date...what should I do about trying for a second?

    I went on a first date with this girl yesterday that i met online. We went to a late lunch, walked around the mall, went to the arcade, had dessert, and finally went to see a movie. I ended up paying for most of it, but she "stole" the check for dessert. I think it went well, not a lot of awkward silences and stuff, i even got to take a ride in her car haha. At the end though i told her that we should go out again and suggested Friday. She said she was busy though but she suggested Saturday or Sunday. We then hugged and said the usually goodbyes and everything.

    I told her to text me to make sure she got home okay, and she did. I told her that i had fun, but she said that i was hard to read so that was reassuring, and she then said when i asked her if she wanted to go out again that gave it away that i had fun.

    My big question is, is it too early to contact her about possible plans for then? or should i wait a little longer? Do you think those are good signs that she was interested enough to go on a second date?

    I texted her today for a little bit but never got to ask that. Im thinking that i should call her or ask if she wants to Skype later to set something up.

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    Seize the moment. Date sounds like it went well so get in touch and suggest Saturday or Sunday. Don't wait.

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    ...and dont text!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by surfhb View Post
    ...and dont text!!!!
    Why not?! I like texting!

    Yep good sings definitely - she suggested Saturday or Sunday!

    Good luck!
    “Really, sex and laughter do go very well together, and I wondered - and I still do - which is more important.” - Hermione Gingold-

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    Send her a blunt text saying you cant see her this week, then dont text her her for 12 days. On the 13th day, youll be baw deep. Youve done the hard work, dont fck it up by suggesting another date. You need to keep them on their toes.

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    Dude. Just ask her.
    What are you waiting for?!?

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