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    Love as a mental problem

    Have you ever heard that love may be a mental problem, the so called [URL="http://www.seo-forum-seo-luntan.com/love/love-is-a-mental-disorder-%27f63-9%27/"]F63.9[/URL]? I would like to show you an interesting science link about the BRAIN and the love:
    ted.com/talks/helen_fisher_studies_the_brain_in_love.html

    (Probably there will be your native language available, the original language is English).
    You may share your opinion, I am interested in this matter.

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    Yes, it makes you temporarily insane so you reproduce. I agree. I think marriage should be more like a business partnership. Respect, teamwork, equitable division of labour towards goals (however you want to count it). If you enjoy each other's company and have compatibility (intellectual, sexual, emotional), I see attraction as a natural extension.
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    wtf is equitable division of labour towards goals? is this where im going wrong?
    Last edited by iamaninnocentma; 29-06-12 at 11:27 AM. Reason: fckd up original post

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    I'm tired and used too many words to describe something simple. It just means dividing the work to reach common goals, in a way that everyone agrees is fair. Teamwork. He cuts the lawn so she can enjoy sunbathing, she bakes cookies so he enjoys getting fat. That kind of thing.
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    I like that study. It's good to have more developed psychology/science of love. It's important.

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