Heartbroken till' the bitter end..

[smackie9]

The reason why I ask these questions is that such self loathing is caused by some kind of tragic event, trauma, or abuse.

[Gato Karate]

How old is she? What are her living conditions? like does she live at home? is she going to college? Who does she live with? What is her relationship like with her mom and dad?

She is 15, same age as me. Living conditions, well, her home is a nice place, and normal, she mostly spends time at home. She's going to the 12th grade, and her mother and father are okay, also her sister too.

[smackie9]

12th grade at 15? wow she's a few years ahead of herself.

[smackie9]

well something in her personal life happened, like a death in the family or her parents are separating, etc. It must be something huge for her not to even trust you enough to tell you, she might be feeling guilty about something, she got involved in something she shouldn't have, maybe she wrote something down in a diary that has upset her parents, who knows. You could try to get in touch with a friend of her's or someone that is close to her to find out if she is in any trouble. It's quite possible she was sexually assaulted by someone she knows. Personally I would be concerned about her behavior.

[Gato Karate]

well something in her personal life happened, like a death in the family or her parents are separating, etc. It must be something huge for her not to even trust you enough to tell you, she might be feeling guilty about something, she got involved in something she shouldn't have, maybe she wrote something down in a diary that has upset her parents, who knows. You could try to get in touch with a friend of her's or someone that is close to her to find out if she is in any trouble.

Maybe, you are right, there could be something going on with her. I'll try asking one of her friends, if they can listen to me. They've been ignoring me ever since, like they think I did something to her.

[smackie9]

wow really? Could it be possible that someone you know told her a bull s hit lie about you? Or was there a post on your FB or a text message on yer phone from a girl that she could have misinterpreted? Saw that you had porn on your web history? I'm just throwing ideas out there, the possibilities are endless for sure. Those are the most popular ones that we see on the forum.

[Chris258]

Hey Gato, I know how your feeling to a degree, firstly you need to stop thinking about suicide, I've been there, its not nice & you really regret ever thinking like that.

Its already been said but smackle9, it could possibly be a personal issue, if you really like her don't give up, I know its hard but show her you care & she can trust you (try not to seem obsessed etc). Just keep at it, if it doesn't work out its her loss, your young, you have your whole life ahead of you, there's plenty of fish in the sea, as the saying goes.

[smackie9]

Oh one more thing...did anyone have access to your phone, like a mischievous sibling and could have sent her a nasty text message. That's another one that has come up on the boards.

[Gato Karate]

Could it be possible that someone you know told her a bull s hit lie about you? Or was there a post on your FB or a text message on yer phone from a girl that she could have misinterpreted? Saw that you had porn on your web history?

No, I don't anyone said stuff about me to her, she never cares about people that gossip. Facebook, she hates it. Text, well, she doesn't really text either. But who knows, it could've been something, it could've been someone.

If you really like her don't give up, I know its hard but show her you care & she can trust you (try not to seem obsessed etc). Just keep at it, if it doesn't work out its her loss, your young, you have your whole life ahead of you, there's plenty of fish in the sea, as the saying goes.

Heh, I'm not going to give up. If it doesn't work, her big loss. Thanks.

Oh one more thing...did anyone have access to your phone, like a mischievous sibling and could have sent her a nasty text message. That's another one that has come up on the boards.

My phone. Pfft. It's mostly off, and the texting doesn't work for a reason. My sister, she doesn't even how to use a phone (younger than me). I always keep my phone in my pocket. xD

[smackie9]

hey just checkin all bases here.....

[smackie9]

Well maybe her parents told her times up on you being her BF. My parents did that when I was 15.

[Gato Karate]

Well maybe her parents told her times up on you being her BF. My parents did that when I was 15.

That could be possible.. Maybe also the reason why she was acting strange..

[smackie9]

That would really suck

[Gato Karate]

That would really suck

Indeed, my friend.. Indeed.

[smackie9]

Well I hope you can find some answers soon. best of luck.