Porn over sex

[azz84]

I seem to have a recurring problem which creeps up after being in a relationship for a while, I get to the stage where I prefer to masturbate over porn rather than having sex with my girlfriend and it's driving me mad. My sex life is now so stale I don't have sex more than once a month and whilst I'm doing it I'm not properly relaxed and enjoying it, thinking how I just wanna get it over with, what's wrong with me? I feel such a freak! I've already lost a girl over it and I think it's gonna happen again soon.

I'm not a very self confident person, hate how I look, my body etc could this be anything to do with it?

Azz

[dehahaha]

That happened to me before too. But I fixed it by convincing my girl that we should watch porn while doing it. My excuse was that we can learn different techniques and try different things. It worked. That's a band aid approach though...

[randUsername]

How is watching someone else have sex more exciting than actually experiencing it? Maybe you guys should try new things in bed.

[Boisdevie]

Sounds like the sex life is just boring. It does happen.

[surfhb]

How is watching someone else have sex more exciting than actually experiencing it? Maybe you guys should try new things in bed.

Wow! The point of the comment flew out of the sky and wiggled in your face and you still missed it.

[Graham Berkeley]

When i was 20ish I had this problem. The cure was fixing my self body image with diet and excersize and finding a more exciting girl. Try it. It works.