Girl squeezes left arm

[BigNeil]

What's the sign language? Met a girl once on first date. text her a bit. 3 weeks later met her again just before she goes on holiday. past her on the stairs, she holds my left arm and squeezes it, says nothing, I say "your a hard woman to track down". that was it. then i continued down the stairs,then she went up the stairs. Saw her little while later staring at me in an obvious way. She then leaves and goes home.....help translate this?

[searock]

You didn't give us much info. What happened after the first date? Why wasn't there a second?

[BigNeil]

She gave big kiss on first date, we were both working etc./busy. then second was that brief encounter

[searock]

That was hardly a second date - you only bumped into each other and you didn't even talk to each other. Why didn't you start a conversation when you met her on the stairs? How often do you text?

Are you even interested in this girl at all?

[BigNeil]

text abit, every few days. It was the first time I saw her during that night.

[BigNeil]

I don't want to show that deep down I'm a 'nice guy' because girls nowadays prefer dating arrogant bastards.

[searock]

I hope you aren't older than 20..?

Even if your idiotic statement were true, showing interest is not the same as showing that you are a nice guy. If you don't show interest, she will think that, well, you aren't interested, and move on to someone else.

[smackie9]

She's trying to get you to give her attention......it's obvious you haven't been showing her proper interest.

[qwertz]

Her squeezing her [left] arm in particular means she likes you and wants to **** you.
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Seriously, I hope you are under 16 then you may be forgiven for asking a question like this.

[oldskool83]

she wanted to get fresh with you.

[Boisdevie]

All this stuff about nice guys finishing last is utter bullshit. You are being way way way too slow. If a first date goes well, arrange a second date at the end of the first date. You have not shown that you're really that interested have you?

[asdfg789]

@OP - no, that is not the signal. If she squeezed your right testicle and gave you a double wink THEN you're home free

[Boisdevie]

@OP - no, that is not the signal. If she squeezed your right testicle and gave you a double wink THEN you're home free

And all these years I thought it was the LEFT testicle. I've missed so many chances.

[Maple1714]

Yeah, ask her our again or she will for sure move on to the next. A woman I met once said this to me...."Men are like trains, there is always another one coming down the track"