So it's 4 o' clock in the morning as I'm writing this, please pardon my grammar mistakes.
He is very quiet in public, rarely speaks. But at home, he can be very pushy (e.g. if I don't answer a question because I'm tired and want to sleep, he will push till I'm answering even if that means staying up all night.) If I'm not with him, he checks where I am, with who and what I am doing. (He always knows somehow..)
Sexually, he's very pushy and get's angry easily if I don't give what he wants.
I am always the one to blame and he has a way of making me feel very and very guilty. He talks behind my back with his friends, I was in so many fights with them, most of the time female friends where they would just yell at me that I am the one to blame, crazy, ugly and what not.
I have given up all my guy friends, because he wanted me to. I try my best but he never thanked me for anything, if he's mad he'll just ignore me.
If I don't answer his texts, he will get angry with me and it will turn into one huge fight. I just don't know what to say then, so I'll just be quiet but if I don't answer he'll get angry.
He never believes me, he is very jealous and sarcastic he also sometimes threatens with attempting suicide.
I don't want to denigrate, he can be a great man too. He has kind words and promises. He says he understands me and wants to give me everything I could ever ask for and that no man will ever love me like him.
But this has been going on for several years now, and it's starting to get to me. Am I in a emotional abusive relationship? If so, what should I do? Or am I just overreacting?
Ps; >IF< I'm in an emotional abusive relationship, I definitely want to break up. But I am scared that he will attempt suicide, or that I will never find another man that will love me..
Pss; I'm sorry for the length of this question.