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    Not sure if I am as important to him as he is to me...

    I just moved to a new state with my boyfriend while he finishes school. My boyfriend tells me I am the most important thing to him but he always talks about how lonely he is and how he wants to move back home when he is done with school. It really upsets me when he tells me how lonely he is. It makes me feel like I am not good enough for him. If I was really that important to him, wouldn’t I be enough to make him happy?

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    Maybe he just misses his friends and family? Don't take it so personally.
    'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anna1220 View Post
    If I was really that important to him, wouldn’t I be enough to make him happy?
    No, especially if he has to spend all his time reassuring you that you are so important.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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