She only "loves"me when i start liking another girl :( please help

[jasonarunner]

My ex gf that i went out with for 3 years /after we broke up we stayed amazing friends on and off again but she barely txt me back now unless she sees that i am with someone then she will start flirting again and want me to go out with her so i ask her out and she says idk thats not fare i broke up with someone to go back out with her and in person she is to die for i love her so much i cant let all that love go to waste now can i we have so many memorys together half of me whats to say eff it and move on get over her but how do you let somethign that valubal go to waste so my question is how do i get to go back out with her what do i say to her do i txt it or say it in person idk thank you all

[smackie9]

It's not valuable if they don't feel the same way about you back....get it through your head, she doesn't love you, she is emotionally using you.

[jasonarunner]

It's not valuable if they don't feel the same way about you back....get it through your head, she doesn't love you, she is emotionally using you.

then why does she act like she likes me why does she flirt

[Ange Barnes]

She sounds insecure, she may not 'want' you, but doesn't want anyone else to have you either...

[Red Apollo]

She doesn't want you. She just wants you to want her more than any other girl.

[HeartIsAching]

Red Apollo nailed it - she's insecure and when your attention gets focused elsewhere, she tries to get it re-focused on her. Cut contact, she's toxic.