why won't he kiss me?

[raven]

my boyfriend won't kiss me, I have even confronted him about it. I have bought breath spray, mints, so I know it dont stink, I even went to extremes, but I won't go there. And still nothing. He kisses me just like he does his mother. What's the deal. When I ask him he just kind of avoids the question. Is it him, or is it me? Is there something that I can do about it, or do I just live like this? I love to be kissed, it used to happen, in the beggining. Is this what they call the honeymoon period? And has it been over for a long time, and I am just being stupid?
Guys, I need your advice here!!!!

[Joe_Watson]

Um, why don't you kiss him (on the lips) and he'll be forced to kiss back?
Kiss him the way you want him to kiss you and he might learn what you want him to do.
Get into that pattern with him and maybe he'll start doing it on his own.
Just a suggestion.

Hope this helps.

[igor]

It probably doesn't have anything to do with you. I had a boyfriend once who didn't really like to kiss. That sounds weird to me, but some people are grossed out by it or just don't really like to do it. He should at least give you a reason why though... Just ask him and demand an answer. Let him know that it makes you feel like there's something wrong with you.

[OpticalIllusion]

Kiss his ass... forget waiting for him to take action. Shove that tongue in there!

[Only-virgins]

Your probably just really ugly and he wants to avoid kissing you as much as possible.

[OpticalIllusion]

Your probably just really ugly and he wants to avoid kissing you as much as possible.

LMFAO!

[Ashley]

I had a boyfriend back in high school who didnt kiss but he told me why... he felt embarassed because he didnt know how to kiss.

[raven]

yeah, onlyvirgins, that is exactly what I am thinking!!! Now why won't he just tell me that? You guys are such jerks.

[stardust]

Thinking i may just be butt ugly is not the first thing i would think of to be honest, id probably assume it was my breath! but as youve ruled that one out i really believe you deserve a valid reason! so just ask, say its been bugging you for time and you just wanna know why!! youve gotta ask!

[abovethisall911]

Ask him what his problem is,you deserve at least an explanation. You seem to be trying very hard and he's not putting in any effort, relationships are give and take on both sides

[Junket]

I had a boyfriend back in high school who didnt kiss but he told me why... he felt embarassed because he didnt know how to kiss.

That could be a possible issue.

[Junket]

yeah, onlyvirgins, that is exactly what I am thinking!!! Now why won't he just tell me that? You guys are such jerks.

Why won't you just come out and ask him if that's the reason?

You girls are such jerks.

[raven]

I have asked and all i get is, i kiss you other places, isn't that enough? Now he thinks, its all a joke, and wont shut up about it. He says its not like that, but can't give me a reason.

[thepinkrockstar]

Ask him. Make sure you're alone - as in, hes got no excuse to avoid the question like being called into the kitchen or he "thinks he hears someone calling him" - and ask him. Tell him its making you feel bad and you'd feel much better if you at least knew the reason.

And a note, I don't think he thinks your ugly, otherwise you two wouldn't be going out. And if it is, then he doesn't deserve you, go and find someone who does think your pretty.

[raven]

im going to post some pics, just so you can see how far i have came. and that i AINT ugly

as soon as i get home from work, in about an 1-1/2