That's the point: we don't know what he considers her. We don't know if he's mad. Which is why they need to have a talk about what happened to clear everything out.
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16-09-12, 06:34 PM #76
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17-09-12, 01:46 AM #77
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Her: has trouble with social clues, inexperienced, doesn't like confrontation, stubborn, lacks communication skills.
Him: not much experience either, insecure or lacks confidence, gives up easily, lacks communication skills.
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17-09-12, 09:45 AM #78
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LOL on this thread.
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19-09-12, 07:50 AM #79
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I just saw him tonight at our meeting and he actually came up and said hi to me. I could tell he was nervous he acted like a 15 year old boy while he was eating a cookie, kinda giggly and stuff but we had a short and sweet conversation. we asked how we were and stuff but I stayed very neutral so I think it went well.
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19-09-12, 07:54 AM #80
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In other words, you are still leaving him guessing. Geeze, I really do hope he just bails on you for someone who actually knows what she wants.
Originally Posted by yoyobabe01
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19-09-12, 07:55 AM #81
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how am i am leaving him guessing exactly? what should i have said then? "i love you!"? why did he come up and talk to me finally then if he did not want to before
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19-09-12, 07:58 AM #82
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He's testing the waters. Its a dance. He moves, you... move sort of with your head bobbing on your neck while looking about the room.
Why didn't you just take the opportunity to quickly say "about the other night.. I owe you an apology. lets go for coffee sometime and talk about it"
Communication. Its just that simple.Last edited by IndiReloaded; 19-09-12 at 08:11 AM.
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19-09-12, 08:01 AM #83
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what does that supposed to mean? to move me? Originally Posted by IndiReloaded
and I did not want to bring it up to not make it awkward again
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19-09-12, 08:12 AM #84
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:slaps forehead:
Sorry, but you're hopeless. lol.
Move... as in dance. I added punctuation but I doubt that will help.Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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19-09-12, 08:18 AM #85
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got it well i just wanted to say the progress on here to tell y'all that he has finally come up and initiated conversation again.
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He has the patience of a saint that boy.
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19-09-12, 11:24 AM #87
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No kidding. Smart like soap bubble this one is. Originally Posted by smackie9
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19-09-12, 03:11 PM #88
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so its a good thing that he is initiating conversation now
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19-09-12, 04:03 PM #89
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OP, do you have some kind of issue that prevents you from reading social clues? Nothing wrong if you do, many people do - maybe just let him know about it so he doesn't think that you are completely uninterested in him?
What do you want?
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19-09-12, 10:11 PM #90
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I just do not want to seem desperate to him. either he is interested or he values the friendship still
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