Need help with a guy?

[sjaved5]

I'm really sorry if this is too long..
Basically, I met a boy online about 2 months ago. We texted literally everyday and met literally last week. It went perfectly.. he treated me pretty much like his girl.. we had the sweetest first kiss, and a few more little make out sessions here and there. Plus, he had his arm around me and just held me.. it was perfect. Later that day, he said he loved being with me and couldn't wait to meet again. That was last Tuesday. Now this guy is the type of guy who always has his phone on him. And he always replies back. Sometimes, he forgets about his texts and if I text again, he'll reply.

The thing though, is that the since Wednesday, he would just sort of stop replying in the middle of the day. And I mean.. I didn't think anything of it since he's a busy guy.

But we haven't talked at all since Friday. Like.. Thursday, I said "what you up to?" and he didn't reply. No big deal, he does that often. But then Friday, I texted him saying hey and he didn't reply. Then, yesterday (Sunday), he changed his facebook relationship status from "single" to "in a relationship". That really confused me.. because we weren't talking at all when he did this...

I'm so confused. I don't know if/when I should text him.. I don't know what's going on with the facebook thing.. I just really thought he liked me. The first meeting was so perfect and by the way things went, I really saw potential in "us".

I'm sorry if I'm coming off as clingy.. I'm a very dependent person.. I get way too attached to people and get very paranoid that they'll just suddenly leave me. So I over think everything.

[Wakeup]

But then Friday, I texted him saying hey and he didn't reply. Then, yesterday (Sunday), he changed his facebook relationship status from "single" to "in a relationship". That really confused me.. because we weren't talking at all when he did this...

I think he may have been dating a couple of the ladies from online (you being one of them) and he's made a decision to be with someone else.

If that's what has happened, don't take it to hard. It was only one date and if you go on first dates without expectation then you'll fair better when things don't work out. If you're not expecting something (like a boyfriend) then you'll not be disappointed if you don't get one.

There are lots of boys who are online. Next time you start chatting with a guy, don't keep chatting for so long because it will give you a false sense of knowing them better than you actually do (that's when you can get disappointed the way you are this time). Just email/chat for a week or two and if he doesn't ask you out then ask him to meet you in a public place for a piece of pizza or something. If he has an excuse not to meet then don't invest anymore effort into him.