Does she like me?? (probably done 1000 times...)

[Berserker]

Hi all,
Got a bit of a generic question here but here goes - i hope some of the girls here can give me a bit of an opinion on this:

I've been really good friends with this girl for just over a year now and we get along great. We were quite close for a long time then she started to see a guy for about a month maybe more and in this time I didn't see her at all or really talk to much - he has now gone overseas and I am seeing her again.

Ok, pretty stock standard so far...but, since this girl saw this guy and we had some time apart it really made me realise how much I like the girl. I am deadset crazy about her. So now this guy has gone overseas I am seeing her flatout...still just mates, but its different. I am noticing things that werent there before, the way she acts, talks and generally behaves towards me is different, its totally more responsive. She asks me more questions, notices what I wear, if I show her a cut on my hand she doesnt just look she grabs my hand. She doesnt sit at the other end of the couch, she sits in the middle so when i sit down im practically against her. I get more textys from her just for chats or to do something. She is more touchy feely. Just silly little things like that (Basically things I know I do when i like somebody i am noticing a bit from her)

Ok so maybe I am telling all the good points...who knows, but the thing that bugs me is the fact that she is just a really nice, genuine sort of girl, like doing the things i listed above i wouldn't put past her just as her normal way of life. The reason i do list them is because they werent there before....but then again, maybe a year of close friendship will do that to u

Girls (and maybe guys too..) tell me some things i can try/test to see if there is anything more there. What would u do different for a guy/girl u liked a bit more than a mate??

Well thanks for listening to my banter...I seem to be good at giving advice but cannot take my own - I dont want to cave my head in over this but i cant see staying friends with the girl if she doesnt feel anything thats all

[Fawn]

You could always just be blunt and ask her if theres anything going on between you too?

I always found that its best to get it out in the open before it drives you insane.

[Berserker]

Yeah I know....thats exactly the answer i didnt want to read.....hehe