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    Stay or leave?

    Hello everyone. Looking for some help.

    I have live in my state my whole life. I love it here, I really do. However, I have the STRONGEST desire to move out of the state and get a fresh start. Though I love my state, I'm not very happy at the moment. I do have a sense of excitement when I think about living in a new place.

    Here's where the trouble comes in. I've been dating a girl for a little over a year. I love her very much and I care for her deeply. She's really the ONLY thing that's keeping me here. I don't want to lose her, but I'm also not ready to ask her to move with me (considering if she would even want to). I talked to her about it and I told her I will stay here. But I really don't think in sure.... :-/

    How should i handle this? Any advice will be much appreciated.

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    Why do you want to move? just for the wow feeling?

    If its about you thinking there you can make it or make your dreams or be more yourself and stuff , GO!

    ANd you dont know each other that well and have a strong foundation. so everything can happen she can also
    ends it tomorrow.

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    Just make up your ****ing mind. Stay with the girl or move.

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    Running away from your problems won't make u feel better in the long run. Deal with your issues full on instead of moving. Problems have their ways of finding u

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    Quote Originally Posted by bcgirl View Post
    Running away from your problems won't make u feel better in the long run. Deal with your issues full on instead of moving. Problems have their ways of finding u
    Pish. I once had a load of problems and i just upped and left, moved to another city. Havnt looked back since.

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