Top 10 characteristics you find attractive and unattractive

[marv1001]

Hi all was wondering what are your top 10 characteristics you find attractive and unattractive in a male? please be honest and try to be specific were possible i know i'm asking a lot but it would really help me out so thank you in advance.

[Maple1714]

This is kind of dumb...b/c attraction is relative. I bored though...

Attractive:
1. Confident but not egotistical
2. Nice calf muscles
3. Long Hair
4. Nice Eyes
5. Clear Skin
6. Strong arms
7. Dark hair
8. Can laugh and be silly
9. Not a drug addict
10. Outgoing

Unattractive:
1. Cankles
2. Paranoid about everything
3. Shy
4. Wears white sneakers
5. Doesn't have a car or Driver's License
6. Bad Skin
7. Buzz cut / Military Hair
8. Follows all the rules
9. Follows one religion
10. Pear Shaped Body

[ttylox]

This is kind of dumb...b/c attraction is relative. I bored though...

*in no particular order!*

Attractive:
1. Talent (or a hobby that they excel in)
2. Patience
3. Tact
4. Broad shoulders
5. Wit
6. Nice, thick hair (usually brunette)
7. Has an active social life
8. Involved with family / has a good relationship with his parents
9. Healthy
10. Tall (at least 6'1'')

Unattractive: (I'm going to steal some of Maple's!)
1. Buzz cut / Military Hair
2. Follows all the ruls
3. Pear shaped body
4. Clinginess (ugh!!)
5. Being constantly available and anxious to follow my every whim
6. Addiction (of any kind... even video games!)
7. Emotional
8. Physically weak
9. The inability to admit mistakes
10. Bad teeth

[iamaninnocentma]

Attractive:
Being a good person
Honesty
Intelligence
A sense of humor compatible with mine
Being passionate
Being "quirky" and "different" in a way that I like
Being shy around strangers, but fierce if wronged
Confidence, pride
Emotional intensity
Physically speaking: sweet smile, intense eyes, sexy movements, shoulders larger than the rest of the body, taller than me

Unattractive:
Dishonesty
Arrogance
Stupidity
Close-mindedness
Lack of adequate personal hygiene
Misogyny (which includes being creepy in a typically male way) and/or homophobia and/or racism, obviously
Permanently inflated ego
Clinginess
Lack of passion
Physically speaking: flabby and/or pear shaped body, "stupid" face

[vashti]

Mute.
Big penis.
Big wallet.
Generous with the penis AND the wallet.

That's about it.

[DangerBarbie]

I think humour is the single most attractive thing, if you can make somone laugh your set!

[Cherry Bomb]

Attractive:
1. Nice body.
2. Not close-minded
3. Rich (not too rich, though).
4. Famous!
5. Good sense of humor.
6. German.
7. Honest.
8. Has a great independent taste in music, movies etc.
9. Adventurous and spontaneous.
10. Confident.

Unattractive:
1. Close minded about everything, afraid to try something new.
2. Long hair.
3. Very hairy body.
4. Too confident.
5. Wears skinny jeans.
6. Doesn't play any instruments.
7. Dislike music/terrible taste in music.
8. Not doing anything with his life.
9. Egoistic.
10. Obese.

But I do understand that a person is a bit more complicated than a list, so if we have great chemistry, I don't really care about all that.

[marv1001]

Thank you all,
its a silly question yes! but it has illustrated some universal features of attraction. also i was very surprised by some people not having honesty on there, also its funny how there was a difference between countries rather than just individuals.

[askdanica]

Attractive
Smart
Have some sense of humor
Honest
Tall
Good looking
Confident
Can decide for himself/independent
Caring
Faithful
Humble

Unattractive
Conceited
Obsess
Untidy
Pervert
Too many to mention....

[newcity2010]

Attractive
Tall
Dark
Handsome
12 fingers
3 eyes
.......

Unattractive
Too skinny
Too fat
Not skinny enough

.....

[iamaninnocentma]

Occupational hazard in canada im afraid. Try moving to a more manly country.

[Love'sReject]

O CANADA, our home and native land....

[iamaninnocentma]

My ex is an American.

Whats the difference?

[Love'sReject]

Whats the difference?

Like the difference between your people and Jews. Night and DAY, my friend.

[iamaninnocentma]

Ah, one are a bunch of terrorist scumbags, and the others are nice arabs? Thanks.