Advice giver needs advice: infidelity imminent

[IndiReloaded]

Yea, verily and he shall bringeth light into the darkness... of the mariannas trench.

I've sometimes pondered the similarities between the internet and the dark ages. For most, its running on blind faith, the deep mysteries known only to few. Then there is the next level up, with those who know enough to really f-uck things up but not enough they truly belong there. Like investment firms. I hope they self-regulate better, is all I can say. No hope of an SEC equivalent.

[KingZ]

Noone believes this Phil guy is for real, do they? I'd give at least even odds this is a troll. A damned good one, but still a troll.

He's definitely for real. You haven't seen the similarities between him and CAM?

Hmm. I have this thread saved. I wonder how difficult it would be to send it to his wife.

[surfhb]

This forum has Jumped The Shark with this thread

[iamaninnocentma]

Dont expect much sense from Indi anymore. She started rambling about investment firms a while ago and hasnt been seen since. I think her stocks have took a hit and she's lost it. She also said that CAM left because he outgrew the forum, lol. Maybe she's CAM's wife, who knows.

[IndiReloaded]

Dont expect much sense from Indi anymore. She started rambling about investment firms a while ago and hasnt been seen since. I think her stocks have took a hit and she's lost it. She also said that CAM left because he outgrew the forum, lol. Maybe she's CAM's wife, who knows.

Yes. No. Somewhat. Yes. LOL, no.

[Phil Davies]

Christ, women even hate me on the internet. This is outstanding.

[Wakeup]

Hate would mean we care... don't flatter yourself.

[Phil Davies]

Well played, Bea Arthur.

[Wakeup]

Thanks, George Burns. I was going to call you Milton Berle but it's well know he had a big dick so the persona wouldn't fit you. *Bandaboom*

[Phil Davies]

Nailed it.

[Maple1714]

Phil - So did you and your wife talk more last night?

[Wakeup]

lol.. for goodness sakes, why did you stroke his ego by asking, Maple?

[Wakeup]

Nailed it.

I wouldn't be surprised if you nailed Bea Arthur.. Even after her death.

[Maple1714]

Hahaha I am curious! I want to get back on topic here!

[Phil Davies]

Yes, for about 4 hours. It started out like I thought it would with me talking for 20 minute clips and her nodding in agreement. Then she came out of her shell a little bit. It ended up being her prodding for details (which are never a good thing) and me being perhaps a little TOO honest. She finally opened up and said she's hurt and upset, obviously. But then she spent 20 minutes asking the same types of questions ... what do I want. What do I want her to do. What does she need to work on. How does she make it better. once agin back to me having total control, making every decision. So I told her look this is one of the problems I have, you're so passive and so meek I almost want you to punch me in the face. That part of the convo actually helped, lots of deep rooted shit came to the surface.

All in all good talk but not sure where we go from here. I couldn't answer her question honestly. No idea whats going to make me not wanna go out with my friends and get affirmation from pretty young girls. Like I said countless times, I may just be a complete douche (no comments) destined to be single forever. If thats the case, I feel terrible I ruined a good persons life over it.

I promised her I'd stop all communication with anyone construed as non-essential friend or acquaintance and see if we can just reconnect organically now that everything is out in the open. We shall see.