Never has time for me

[icecreamISgood]

Hi. Ok here is my problem. There is this guy that I was kind of 'seeing' or whatever, for a couple of months. At the very beginning, he would drop his friends to hang out with me all the time. Now, I'm lucky to get a phone call back. I get no definate plans with him at all. He always says, "Well I'll see what I'm doing...I call you..." and then doesn't call. I think I know how you guys are going to answer my question: "He's just not that into you." or whatever. But I know for a fact that he did 'like' me about 2 months ago. Do guys really change their minds about a girl that quickly? Should I move on?

[lozzybug]

You sound like you already know that you should just move on. Seriously, if he really liked you, he'd be there. Just have it out with him and you'll get your answer.

[jaslovesant]

He does seem selfish for putting friends before you. Next time you see him, tell him how you feel - If he didn't even turn up for this, then definetely consider to finish.

And when they say they're going to call but they don't...thats just typical men...except from my ex-very-clingry-boyfriend.

[Illusional]

usually at that age, a lot of guys are fickle. i was and i wouldn't be surprized if he is the same way.

raverboy