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    I tried to post the Attenborough Cordyceps video but it failed. I thought it would be instructive.

    Quote Originally Posted by jeejee View Post
    You quoted and replied with something very apt/sarcastic.
    I need to learn to do this more. I'm so damned repressed IRL, if I can't do it on an online anonymous forum, what hope is there? My inner bitch... she is gone, I've looked everywhere for her but she isn't coming back. Goddammit.
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    Well, she has been counseling with her Church counselor for over 6 months. Some of it has been very hard on her. I love her very much, and am willing to do whatever it takes to get things back on track without issues as before. We have been married 8 years plus and known each other for over 20.
    We are trying to find counselors for couples now. We are looking for someone that is not friends of the Church etc to keep things neutral and not biased.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Steve40th View Post
    Nice. I will post more after Church.
    Since your god is all knowing and all seeing why not just ask him. Presumably he's a lot brighter than we are. But perhaps your god has put you through all the shit with your wife because he likes having a laugh?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Boisdevie View Post
    Since your god is all knowing and all seeing why not just ask him. Presumably he's a lot brighter than we are. But perhaps your god has put you through all the shit with your wife because he likes having a laugh?
    Noted. Carry on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Steve40th View Post
    Well, she has been counseling with her Church counselor for over 6 months. Some of it has been very hard on her. I love her very much, and am willing to do whatever it takes to get things back on track without issues as before. We have been married 8 years plus and known each other for over 20.
    We are trying to find counselors for couples now. We are looking for someone that is not friends of the Church etc to keep things neutral and not biased.
    Six months - she's really just starting to get it, at least according to my counselors. They said I was right on track when I started making a change at 6 months. Might be different if you're going voluntarily though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeartIsAching View Post
    Six months - she's really just starting to get it, at least according to my counselors. They said I was right on track when I started making a change at 6 months. Might be different if you're going voluntarily though.
    Roflcopter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Bump for HIA, whose been though this.
    who's*, Indi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeejee View Post
    Roflcopter.
    Figured that would amuse you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KingZ View Post
    who's*, Indi.
    Right, my bad. Does anyone else find using the apostrophe slows down typing tho?
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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    Right, my bad. Does anyone else find using the apostrophe slows down typing tho?
    I decided to find out. My typing speed without typing apostrophes:



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    No.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeartIsAching View Post
    Figured that would amuse you.
    I'm just glad we are finally getting to the crux of the matter. So we've established that you've had therapy for six months minimum, and it wasnt voluntary. The next obvious question, is what was the therapy for, and why was it compulsory?

    Tell me to to mind my own business if it's too private to discuss on an open forum. My PM is always open mate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jeejee View Post
    I'm just glad we are finally getting to the crux of the matter. So we've established that you've had therapy for six months minimum, and it wasnt voluntary. The next obvious question, is what was the therapy for, and why was it compulsory?

    Tell me to to mind my own business if it's too private to discuss on an open forum. My PM is always open mate.
    For a year.

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    Typing speed. What site was that?
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    Looks like Indi is trying to beat your 137pm before she posts, lol.

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