How does one find a FWB?

[Love'sReject]

I've always dreamt of having one. I haven't the slightest clue how common they are nor how to start one.

What say you?

[bass12345]

A person that you know is not the type that invests sentiments quickly should work fine..

[luvcoq]

He only knows his mom and his therapist.

[kleaners]

I don't think that's something you can find. It kinda just happens. I started chatting with a woman and invited her over to dinner for a first "date." We ended up having sex afterwards and from then on she would come over for sex. I didn't see the relationship developing into anything more, so I said, we can end things or keep it as a FWB deal until one of us settles into a relationship. It worked for a couple months until I met someone.

[phantom694u]

Ya it's quite common. When neither party wants to be in a serious relationship, but there is enough attraction for sex, then it happens. Sex is a biological need, and it's fun, so it's really not hard to find a FWB partner. I have had several in the past. But be careful, if one of you falls in love during sex, it will end the friendship. Not everyone is made for this. I would say most people gain emotional attachment through sex.... so make sure you are ready for it.

[Love'sReject]

You're a lucky guy. The emotional crap doesn't scare me, really. What matters is being selected for one; that must be so flattering!

[dem862]

First you get a friend, and then you start having sex with them. Or as an alternative, you can start having sex with someone, and then make them a friend.

[HeartIsAching]

You have to leave your mom's basement first.

[vashti]

You're a lucky guy. The emotional crap doesn't scare me, really. What matters is being selected for one; that must be so flattering!

How is that flattering? It means someone doesn't like you enough to keep you.

[Love'sReject]

How is that flattering? It means someone doesn't like you enough to keep you.

But they want to do you. That's the highest compliment a woman could give a man.

[Love'sReject]

You have to leave your mom's basement first.

And you have to stop relying on your right hand first.

[HeartIsAching]

Dude, you're the one that's allegedly in college - talk about a target-rich environment. If you can't get laid there, you can't get laid. Live with it.

[Love'sReject]

College chicks are stupid. I don't know how to converse with stupid. Plus, they have extremely bad taste. This is the punishment for possessing good taste, I guess.

[searock3]

lol, you really will die a virgin, unless Martha Stewart becomes available.

[Love'sReject]

Men can't be virgins, dingus.