does she like me or not?

[unknownsoldier8]

Hey I'm new here.

I know you guys probably get a thousand of these a day, but you're my last resort. I cant find enough evidence to suppot either side.

Heres my story. Over the past few weeks, my friend and I have been hanging out alot more than ever before. She calls me alot and wants me to go places with her. she gets really flirty too when we go places. I thought she liked me too, but she claims she likes this other guy. I didn't believe it at first but I was with her and her mom, and they were talking about him. So thats the other side.
The other night was even more confusing. She was feeling bad and so was I. We went out and saw the guy she "likes" there with another girl. She became really depressed and upset. I put my arm around her and conforted her. Now I was positive she didnt like me. But over the course of the night about 3 or 4 times, we made eye contact. NOT your ordinary eye contact it lasted for about 30 seconds each time and we were both looking deeply into eachothers eyes and we didnt say a word.

I have no idea what she means. Im looking for expert advice.

Thanks alot!

[COAD]

First of all, dont make the mistake i made by thinkin too much of what actually was. Girls got their games. I was in a almost the same situation as you. Except she doesent like the guy no more, she proved it to me.

She could like you, or she could just be playing along - in your situation, i would say she is still deciding. Whatever you do, DONT give up - you guys could end up in a relationship. I give 80% for that.

Good Luck man

[coffeecrazy]

Yeah I had the same, looking into each others eyes for ages, I thought she liked me but someone told me she liked another guy, so I left it.

I think there is a good chance that she likes you. Girls are weird though and she might actually hate you.

[Noemi23]

Let her forget about the other guy first. Don't just go out with her knowing she likes someone else.
And yeah.... we are weird sometimes

[Only-virgins]

She likes the other guy.

[Mike]

she might actually hate you.

She likes the other guy.

Positivity thrives in these forums!

Anyhow, I'd watch your step like others have said, maybe you just need to ask her how she feels about you, before you look into it too much mentally.