on every day he likes to call me "punk", "pain in the butt"....that's okay if said in a lovely way, but it doesn't make me feel very good if he constantly call me that.
However, if we fight, he'd call me "bitch", "dumb a$$", "mother f*cker", there was one time even "you piece of crap". That really hurt me. Told him to stop doing that, but doesn't seem he can control himself if we fight. We yell at each other when we fight, and he always says I started the fight, I wanted the fight....I didn't, who would want a fight w their loved one? I hated that he claimed stuff during a fight, saying "you started the fight!" "you worry too much and it's ruining the relationship!" he never talks about himself. He makes me feel very confused, mad at myself and him, hurt, and really really depressed. I am seriously thinking about breaking up with him, should I?
we've been together for one and a half years now. Since the 4th week, it's never been smooth. I am a graduate student with a thesis to finish in 2 weeks, how should I manage the break-up during this special time of my life? and to make it worse, we are currently living together.