Marriage With Two Women

[Loveboat]

My wife and I have been married for three years. We live in a beautiful home in Greenwich, Conn. My wife's parents are divorced. Her Father worked for a 500 Fortune Company and made a fortune. Her Mother is wealthy, attractive petite women who looks younger than her age. Her figure is very curvacious and sexy. Although divorced she has a very active social life, and spends time volunteering on many charities. The relationship between the three of us may be a little bizarre. We love each other very much. The sexual bond is very strong. Although married to my wife, I alternate sleeping in my MIL's bed as well. Her Mother finds me sexually exciting. My wife expects me to share my Mother In Law's bed when away on business for several days. We have had this threesome love affair for three years. Both love me and I love them very much. Our three way marriage is special. We feel no quilt or believe anything is wrong about our lives together. We want this to continue indefinitely. No one is forced to do anything they don't want to do. I sleep with both women in the guest room on Sunday where a special bed was made to fit the three of us together. I enjoy Sunday. It is the only time we spend together in bed. Now this is my problem. My wife and I decided on having a baby. MIL is excited about being a grandmother. I am worried because I see us having to make certain accomodations in our sex lives to raise this child. Can we enjoy what we already have and still raise a happy normal child in this household? Please respond. Thanks.

[shh!]

Are you test running your "story" for a Jerry Springer episode? 'Cause this is just plain GROSS, and if it is true, which I doubt, then all three of you need some serious help.

[Loveboat]

Are you test running your "story" for a Jerry Springer episode? 'Cause this is just plain GROSS, and if it is true, which I doubt, then all three of you need some serious help.

Why would this story be gross, when you read about stories of love between lesbians, and gay men having marriages among themselves. This story is more normal than those stories you read daily in your local newspapers. What about Michael Jackson molesting children is that normal behavior. Our love is real and brings no pain to anyone else.

[shh!]

Oh, c'mon! Do you really expect anyone to believe sex with your wife and her mother is normal? Do you really expect that anyone with even half a brain would consider it somehow morally superior to homosexual marriage?

But yes, I do see your alleged situation as being on par with the Michael Jackson scenario, and definitely worthy of Jerry Springer.

[artyemi]

Can we enjoy what we already have and still raise a happy normal child in this household? Please respond. Thanks.

The child will grow up with the grandmother as a grandmother and as a stepmother. IF his grandmother gets pregnant, he will have an uncle and a brother.
And you're worried about changing your sex life to accomodate the baby?

[indigosoul]

ahahahahaha...ya right... ahahahaha

[jolovessim]

Can we enjoy what we already have and still raise a happy normal child in this household? Please respond. Thanks.

IF this story has any element of truth, then no of course not. what are you thinking bringing a child into this! when you get married your partners family become your family, and last i heard insest was a hell of a lot worse than any form of homosexuality!

[Only-virgins]

ahahahahaha...ya right... ahahahaha

Im on this boat.

[Loveboat]

IF this story has any element of truth, then no of course not. what are you thinking bringing a child into this! when you get married your partners family become your family, and last i heard insest was a hell of a lot worse than any form of homosexuality!

How do you equate this relationship with incest(check your spelling)? My MIL is not a blood relative. We are related by marriage

[jolovessim]

yes but still related. like i said when you marry somebody, their family becomes yours.

[bluesummer]

Yes exactly, like if one of your parents remarried and the new stepparent had a child too...would it be ok to marry your step-brother/sister? No, because they are now family (not just by social assumption, but by LAW).

Loveboat, I hope you truly understand that your situation, although you think you are justified in it, is anything but normal. I also don't think you should be so openly critical of gay people considering that their sexual preference is not a product of psychological imbalance, as is yours. I highly suspect that your wife may have been psychologically or sexually abused by her parents or maybe just her mother.

I think you should ask yourself this first and foremost....if you had a daughter, and she got married and her husband was banging both her and your wife (assuming you were divorced also), how would this make you feel? It SHOULD make you feel angry and disgusted. If it doesn't, you shouldn't be having children. If i does, it means that you inherently know what you are doing is morally depraved. I also think that the fact you are here telling your sordid tale to the world and asking for advice ALSO shows that you know deep down that this behaviour is not normal. This is what I call a CLASSIC CRY FOR HELP. Go get some, for your future children's sake (if you have any), and for god's sake take your wife. She needs it more than you apparently.

[Loveboat]

No one is psychologically or had been sexually abused. We are all healthy and happy people with no mental issues. Last week we met with a social worker discussing our situation. At first she seemed a little taken aback and admitted that we had a very unusual problem that is a little bizarre. She did advise us to keep our love between ourselves and only in our own home. Since we accepted this with no reservations she saw no reason to stop it. If MIL will not have children from our love together, and my wife will bear the children,there is no legal issues at stake, just a moral one. She felt that we should always be discreet in public and in our own home. We intend to have several future sessions with her again.

[blue]

IMO: if you would like to do this when u have no children involved in the picture be my guest but when u have children it becomes a different story even in the privacy of your own homes ot behind closed doors. Children see and hear everything! They will find your porn, guns if not secured, vibrators drugs and you know what show of to there friends, at an age as early as 5 trust me i know. Be aware that they are aware they also have instincts and most adults dont pay attention and think that they are off in toyland. You must not be selfish this is selfish all for sex, when u have children you make a choice to put them first at the very leats for the next 18 years. If i were you i would wait till you can be mature enuf to put your sexual greediness aside. Life has enough twist and turns without having to create more. Oh and my spelling sux but im ina rush.

[Loveboat]

I think you are right. That settles it. No children, no complications. Now we can settle back and not worry about being sefish and greedy. At least we have each other.

[Loveboat]

Does anyone have an answer?