Trusting a girl

[svm]

There is a gf of mine who atlks to many other guys and i am over possesive abt her . any soltn ?

[dianawatson]

Trust her, or you are just messing with your life.

[Boisdevie]

lrn to wrt n nglsh n ask us agin

[svm]

Actually i have a problem when she gets suddenly attached to any other guy and says she needs a friend .

[smackie9]

She is friends with you because she doesn't find you sexually attractive. Stop being friends with her and move on.

[smackie9]

You are in this situation for a reason. You insist on being friends with her in hopes with all that you do for her, she will see how much potential you have to be her BF. It doesn't work that way. She passes over you because you come off as a weakling, doing everything for her to be noticed. Girls are attracted to strong, independent, and confident guys. Guys that do very little for a girl, are a challenge so the girl works harder to get their attention. You have been doing it all wrong. Stop being friends with girls you would like to date. Just ask them out. If they say no then you ask someone else out. Stop investing your feelings when you are not even in a relationship with them. It turns them off and cuts off any hope you have getting them to be your GF. hang out with guys and go trolling for girls, they way it should be done.