Originally Posted by
Fruitsss
Hmmm, now u feel wrong about him bringing a new girl now But why did u
not feel like that and stop seeing him right when u knew he just got a child and is
already looking for a relationship with u.
(How long do u have something with him?)
Like i always say never date people with kids. I think almost all of them are a mess
Or have some mess waiting to come around at a later point.
Rather it is them or their baby momma.
And i would say not even date this men. That would be my ultimate advice to u.
Cause the drama will not stop it just started!
I guess they love alcohol so people will drink intentionally cause everyone know
that they can get drunk when they drink , and fight will start.
I think you should not put yourself in drama. I think somewhere him and
his family are trouble makers!
Cause u dont invite people that u know will fight.
ANd who told his ex that u he will come there for the holidays?
Thats also a trouble maker!
I think u are to short in the relationship to go true such a messy life of him.
And why does he have no right to just pick up the kid or let his
parents pick him up so he can be with them.
Why is he and his family so happy to put you and her in the same room instead
of thinking of way to avoid it. Why cant they not say no to the ex and
make plans to go get the baby themselves. Cause the ex is not
important anymore.
The fact that there is no good rule about who will have the baby for Christmas sounds to
me like he is not a real dad that take care good of his dutys. Like make babys and
leave .Its such a mess.
I would say dont go, Or since u have family there , go with one of them and like in the morning
when there is hopefully less drama just to say hi and then leave!
And your bf have no right to speak. Cause thanks to his shity life this problem is created.