I dont know what to do and who to talk to, i really need an advice from people out there. maybe you will say something i dont want to hear please go ahead but please do not judge me, i know i did something really stupid by constantly contacting my ex just wanna talk to him or hear his voice when the fact he broke up with me and he doesnt love me anymore. his feeling changed due to long distance and he asked me to move on with my life. Im hurt, really hurt and yet I cant leave him alone, I have no idea how break up is like, he is my first real relationship and the only person Im able to fall in love for the first time in my life.
We were in a loving relationship until his job took us apart, and we are separated thousands miles apart since then.
he broke up with me 4 months ago, was a drama of crying and sorry etc.. from him. But we kept the contact since, went on and off the past few months. When Im off, Nc for about a week and his on and wanna know how am i doing etc.. and then constant messages, and one day suddenly i feel i miss him so bad and wanted to contact him. I saw him moving on so fast and went to party, going out most of the night and having the fun time of his life. While me, struggling here looking for a job, living in a country side and lonely. I have so little money and I dont want to waste it just for alcohol and party. My life is far from fun and the only friend I have is my computer. Due to job search, little money and lonely life Im currently under alot of stress.
Im jealous, I saw him posting so much fun life without me on facebook, I didnt care at all within those months but one night I woke up from nighmare. The thought of him sleeping with another woman and the feeling haunted me like hell, really like real! I freaked out and see his facebook posting happy stuffs somebody send him a gift and looks so special and I texts him some angry messages and then I comment on his facebook. It pissed him off, and he deleted me. After that I messages the girl he seems flirting all the time with on facebook, telling her to stay away etc.. and she told him and he piss off with me.. again.
I push him further away by sending many messages to talk to me and blame him for his broken promises. I really dont know what did I do, and why I did that, my head just crushed and Im really not myself. and now he told me to stop contact for few months! I dont know wht should i do, I suffer so much with this break up. first time real relationship and i feel like want to kill myself this pain is so unbearable.
I know I should've pulled back but I didnt and now he really pissed with me, am I lost him forever? I remember the hurtful thing he said and that he broke his promises made me really sad and yet i still love him and want him back to my life so bad! i wish somebody will slap me so that i can wake up from this nightmare of him and move on with my life! alas, i do not have real friend here to do that, they all busy with their happy married life and dont care about my heartache situation.
I dont know what to do now, and how to have him back. Advice please.. Im devastated.