Title is vague i do apologize I didn't know what to put there. I will try to get to the point though there will be several issues/questions.
My wife was previously married and he was physical with her. My stepchildren do not even recognize him as their father. We have been married for 10yrs. I just returned from a short deployment to Afghanistan. I wouldn't say I have changed much, kinda quite at times lot on my mind. Not the person I wanted to return as though "loving and nicer" I am not physical at all but argue over the pettiest crap.
She can text guy friends and have them over and say they're my friend too even though i just met them. IF i were to text a woman it'd be in the Mayan Calendar!! I'm 32 and she's 48, says she trusts me but not women. I could say the same thing.
We argue over the kids or money; she lets her 16yr old son practically do anything and our 14yr old daughter clings to me when shes not being a thorn in everyones side.
If i goto the gym and then come home and watch movies on the computer I will hear about it later. If i fall asleep on the couch cause i just too meds or not I'll hear about it in the morning. I have never been a very enthusiastic or touchy person in my life and she always tries to change me but says she'll stop when i tell her i have never been like this so why try to change me now.