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    21 year old virgin

    Im a virgin and so is my girlfriend.
    Should i make the 1st move??

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    why not?? if you're waiting for her to do it, then you might have to wait even longer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Illusional
    why not?? if you're waiting for her to do it, then you might have to wait even longer.

    raverboy
    Well should i just jump on her???

    I dont know foreplay and stuff...

    Im a real loser

    Im a 21 year old virgin....

    Real shy..

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    Your confidence level and self-esteem really suck. That's #1

    Secondly.. oh man.. another one of these threads..... As for foreplay, you're going to need to research and take lessons, buddy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by foundlove1984
    Im a virgin and so is my girlfriend.
    Should i make the 1st move??
    mmmm....check first how she feels about it?

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    just relax and let things happen for both of you she will let you know if she's ready just do what comes natural none of us know what to do the first time, you will learn and you will teach each other first get to know each others bodies, what she likes and disslikes and likewise for you, just take it slowly it's not a race to lose your viginity, good luck and enjoy .....

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    Quote Originally Posted by foundlove1984
    Well should i just jump on her???

    I dont know foreplay and stuff...

    Im a real loser

    Im a 21 year old virgin....

    Real shy..
    haha i love your sarcasm.

    don't get offended because i WILL give you the same sh*t that gave me, either sooner or later. however, being that you're a 21 vrigin isn't really what i'm getting at. i mean that because BOTH of you are one the same page, why should you wait for her to make the move?? she is probably thinking and wanting the same thing, however you're bolder in that you're voicing your desires. being that you're shy is an excuse and when you get past that, you'll finally start to move foward.

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    she will love you for it ..

    as for how to get into it ... well thats one of those embarrasing things that has to be done, man it just seemed to happen for me..

    everyone will probably slate me for this but a few drinks does help....

    just put her hand down your pants lol ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by foundlove1984
    Im a virgin and so is my girlfriend.
    Should i make the 1st move??
    No, you should let me make the first move and tell you all about it.
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    How old have you both been dating? Do you love her and does she love you. Because if you guys really love each other its so great the first time. i fell in love with my man and 6 months into are relationship its happened. good luck to you

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    Quote Originally Posted by foundlove1984
    Im a virgin and so is my girlfriend.
    Should i make the 1st move??
    First...there's absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin at 21.
    And what makes it better is the fact that so is she.

    Yes, make the first move and don't worry so much. You will figure it
    out with her. Start out with some passionate kissing, touching, and let it build up. Your instincts will help you too. Just be intimate with her...the
    rest will fall into place perfectly. You'll be fine.
    Life is an Illusion...Dreams are real.

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    Well she is 18ish and lives with her mom so we got to wate till her moms not home and every time i get to the point just before im ready to try to make the 1st move her mom comes home.... Grrrrrrr.....
    Last edited by foundlove1984; 30-05-05 at 10:51 PM. Reason: Edit spelling
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