What should we do about my partner's father?

**Fruitsss** · 31-12-12, 06:13 AM

Well u did speak a certain way about people against abortions so why cant i speak my way abhout you?
Even thou its something that often happen. And it was not just about u.

And for me it doesnt matter if u r on the pill or the horse or the crack .
But its a fact that u can get pregnant with sex. So its stupid to be all surprised and have abortion.
While u did know that it can happen once u have sex with or without.

Cause the only way not too is not having sex. Its not rocking science what im saying.

Its like saying i dont want too get wet, but u still go out into the rain with a raincoat on.
And once u still get wet somewhere you get mad etc. Make no sense.
If u r so against having kids especially.

**DawkinsDaFihsh** · 31-12-12, 06:20 AM

I'm not here to start a debate on abortion or having kids or not. Each to their own. So lets put a stop to that. We've all had our say.

I'm only here on advice on how to deal what has happened with my partner's dad. Thanks for everyone's comments so far. We have decided that if that is how his dad wants to be, we are just gonna let him be like that. We've tried to explain and understand its a lot to take in but he is just adding more fuel to the fire every day. We don't need all the arguing, its not worth it especially not on his brothers.

**Fruitsss** · 31-12-12, 06:28 AM

Oh bitch please , this is a forum so for discussions. stupid! If u dont like get the Fock out!
Cause u dont have the right to tell no one what they should reply or not!
Now i understand why they dont like u!

**smackie9** · 31-12-12, 06:43 AM

Like I said just ignore the stupid bunt.

**HeartIsAching** · 31-12-12, 06:52 AM

Fruitsss is an imbecile studying to be a moron, and failing her exams. Pay no attention.

**DawkinsDaFihsh** · 31-12-12, 07:07 AM

Thanks guys

**Fruitsss** · 31-12-12, 10:22 PM

Originally Posted by HeartIsAching

Fruitsss is an imbecile studying to be a moron, and failing her exams. Pay no attention.

no im not your mother , bastard!

**HeartIsAching** · 01-01-13, 01:01 AM

LOL, if you think you can rile me up with "mother" jokes, you're sadly mistaken. Also sad. Poor fruitscake.

**IndiReloaded** · 01-01-13, 01:33 AM

I don't have much to add to the other posters comments, I agree with them. Yes, ignore them. If they contact you, be polite but hold your ground insisting on polite communication. The moment they stray from that, end the communication.

Just wanted to add that his family is extremely toxic. Good people like yourself will feel some guilt about cutting communication with them but you shouldn't. When dealing with people like this, remember, its never really about you. Mean, toxic people *always* have something going on in their lives that make them nasty. Feel sorry for them, protect yourself, b/c they don't have the capacity to extend themselves to considering you.

Look forward to a wonderful, drama-free 2013 with you and your husband.

**DawkinsDaFihsh** · 05-01-13, 10:25 AM

We've decided to remain polite if they ever call or email us again just to keep the peace but we won't ever go back over.

Not heard from his family in a few days. My guess is his dad will wait a few weeks and then out the blue, presume we will be going over to visit.

Late happy new year everyone!

**bcgirl** · 05-01-13, 12:38 PM

^ good idea. As for the safe sex, why not get into the habit of birth control pills plus condoms. Double the protection

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