My girlfriend made a porno with her ex that is all over the internet

[bcgirl]

Yes although it can be simple, the op is going to lose a sense of pride. I do question why on earth the op would be inviting a girl he barely knows to his family Xmas. Those family 2012 Xmas pics will be wrecked

[surfhb2]

of course I would!! Because that's what all guys want to do right? They want to make pornos, have rough painful anal sex with their girls, and cum in their faces right? What the **** is wrong with you girls? You know all of you ****ing sluts make me ****ing sick.

Whatever dude! There you go with the judgements again. So anyone who does this kind of stuff is sick or a slut?

Hate to break it to ya but anal sex and cumming on face happens to be the norm for millions if not billions of people in this world....mostly between couples in loving relationships. Personally I think you have an issue with kinky sex then anything else in this situation....just guessing. Doesn't matter since this girl is gone from your life at this point.

[CoolStoryBro]

of course I would!! Because that's what all guys want to do right? They want to make pornos, have rough painful anal sex with their girls, and cum in their faces right? What the **** is wrong with you girls? You know all of you ****ing sluts make me ****ing sick.

Great post bro, lol.

[KingZ]

I still want to hear searock's story.

[Wakeup]

Whatever dude! There you go with the judgements again. So anyone who does this kind of stuff is sick or a slut?

Hate to break it to ya but anal sex and cumming on face happens to be the norm for millions if not billions of people in this world....mostly between couples in loving relationships. Personally I think you have an issue with kinky sex then anything else in this situation....just guessing. Doesn't matter since this girl is gone from your life at this point.

Well, I'm thinking that BCgirl would make Jesus judgemental and angry but, yea, it's not looking good for ole whatsisname right now.

[bcgirl]

Whatsisname probably is super boring in bed. Missionary style with the lights off and clothes on only to conceive a child is how he probably likes to do it

[AdminOnline]

support her as a friend if you are really emotionally affected.
of course, don't use her as a sex object.. do respect woman!

[searock]

of course I would!! Because that's what all guys want to do right? They want to make pornos, have rough painful anal sex with their girls, and cum in their faces right? What the **** is wrong with you girls? You know all of you ****ing sluts make me ****ing sick.

Then why is there so much porn like that, if guys aren't turned on by it?

I still want to hear searock's story.

It's not interesting really... just poor choices I took when I was young and inexperienced, that led me to something I didn't actually want. There are no pornos of me on the internet, if that's what you're wondering ;-).

[whatshisface]

well i shared this situation here to get some perspective from others, and I thank all of you. It seems a lot of you are either angry at my stance on anal sex, or you're either making a joke of the situation.

I should clear up that she 'met' my parents briefly, twice, and did not spend xmas with us. She bought a small gift for them, which I gave to them for her. She was with her own family on xmas. I told my folks that it didn't work out and we are just friends and it was no big deal. I'm close with my family so I usually introduce girls I date to them as soon as I think there might be a chance for something serious, which I mistakenly did with her. I saved myself a lot of frustration and embarrassment by catching this early and I am thankful for that

I know a lot of you will disagree, but in my estimation anal sex is for -
1) homosexuals
2) porno actors
3) sadistic abusive guys who like to inflict pain on women

I want to please my women, not have them feel pain. I wouldn't ask a woman to feel pain so I could feel pleasure. Like hey baby, I'd really like to punch you in the face it would turn me on so much... Girls who say they 'take one for the team' make me sad, I just think it's degrading, and girls who enjoy anal sex don't make sense to me. I suppose if I'm not railing your ass or jizzing in your face I'm boring in bed? Well you think I'm boring, uptight, and I think you're all a bit off with this pro-anal stuff. Like seriously, did all of your boyfriends just get let out of prison? Or maybe you're all posting from Europe? Agree to disagree.

If I were to cum on a girl's face, or **** in the ass, it's just degrading. That's the kind of girl you don't marry, that's the kind of girl you f--k before you get married. I don't feel like I could do such things to a woman I love. That's just me, not how I express myself sexually.

[surfhb2]

Hey you have every right to look down on people who don't see things as you do..... Just as much as I have the right to think your sense of morality is completely warped and twisted.

Btw....what's wrong with homosexuals and porno actors? I've known both in my life and they're really good people. What's make you think anal sex is nothing but pain?

Sounds like a nice girl you threw away based on her thoughtful gesture to your parents

I'm taking back my apology too.....you are a complete dick and I thank God you left her so she can live her life free from the company of pricks like yourself. Grow up little grasshopper!

[whatshisface]

^well, you sound like a real classy broad. It saddens me deeply that you are taking back your apology, because I really respect you and your opinions.
I'm sure you've had plenty of dick in ure ass, and plenty of nut pasted on your face. Good for you. We're all proud for you.

I never said I had a problem with homosexuals or porn stars, did I? Where did you read that? I said that anal sex is primarily practiced by them.

To respond to an earlier question. There is so much anal in porn, because porn is fantasy. Guys fantasize about doing things they wouldn't or couldn't do with girls in real life, or couldn't do with women they respect or have respect for themselves. and that's why these girls are paid to do it. It's also why a lot of porn actresses wear adult diapers in their 30's, have plenty of STIs and STDs (anal sex is probably the easiest way to catch one), not to mention abscesses, fissures, etc.

[bcgirl]

Anal is so popular in pornos because men love it. Haven't you any male buddies? They like it because its "taboo" and it feels tighter and different (like a suction cup feeling). Just because your an anal virgin, doesn't mean you gotta hate. Guess what Einstein, god had given us a g-spot in our anuses! So hmm... Is it so far fetched to say that some men and women enjoy the pleasure of orgasm through the poop shoot if done correctly.? Of course if you are going to hurt if your not used to anal and if the dick is coming at you aggressively. Any female can tell you the pain the first time they had vaginal intercourse until their seal broke and they became loose. Are you going be all anti virgin sex because it will hurt the girl when her cherry is popped? Too bad you never got the pleasure of doing so.
Maybe the main problem is that men like you look at these kind of porn, giving more power to the porn industry to create more fake women that enjoy being degraded, and then stupid girls like your gf think anal sex is cool but have no idea how to do it correctly and neither do the guys because they think those pornos are like real life and then guys end up hurting the girl and then the girls don't speak up because they think that it's just the way it's supposed to be. Porn has given such a twisted reality of sex and the young ppl now a days don't have the sex education to know how to perform safe, pleasurable sex and still be fun and kinky.

[vashti]

I think ejaculating on a woman's face is semi-hostile; I don't like it.

For the sake of accuracy, men like to receive anal sex because it stimulates the prostate. Women do not have a prostate, and the mythical female "G-spot" is NOT in the anus.

To the original poster - you are allowed to have your own moral standards, which others may or may not share. Clearly, this girl violated yours. Best to move on, but surely you can find a way to be compassionate about what she has done. I don't think at the time she did this, she realized the full impact of her actions.

[surfhb2]

I'm a guy Dickhead

Of course you have an issue with people who don't share your sense of morality.....you just indicated those women and men who practice AND enjoy some sexual acts lack self respect.

Only porn actors, homos and sadists primarily have anal sex?! What planet are you from?! LOL

You might want to stop posting since you're starting to embarrass yourself. I don't care what you're into (porno obviously) but don't dare pass judgements like lack of self respect to those who don't share your same views

[whatshisface]

Maybe the main problem is that men like you look at these kind of porn, giving more power to the porn industry to create more fake women that enjoy being degraded

Maybe I'm a bit older than most of you on the forum, but I remember a time when I would never really see anal, DP's, and half the stuff I see on porn now. If it were up to me, I would never see anal or half the things in porn, so no I'm not the problem. The problem is the porn industry has so many competitors that they all push the envelope to have the girls do things that are more and more degrading. Kids nowadays have easy access to porn now, and so they see this and think it's 'normal.' You don't have to be 18 and take an embarrassing stroll through a video store anymore. Young people learn about sex through their friends, and girls nowadays all compete with each other for men, so they feel they need to do this stuff to please men, even though they don't necessarily want to. It's a domino effect.

surfhb - i know you are a guy, and i think that u are a homo.