Ladies, do you kiss when you're "seeing" or "dating" a guy?

[Nice Lover Boy]

When is it alright to do this?

And if you are still dating/seeing him after 2 months and you haven't kissed him? Is this just not normal?

[chenderson325]

Pretty soon, I'd say. Second or third date, if not the first.

[Boisdevie]

Two months and no kissing seems a bit wierd to me. Now if you're a grown up you should really be getting naked two months in. So it begs the question why not?

[alben]

Why not...?
When i meet my lover i always kiss in the date,especially after a long time.

[basilandthyme]

I guess if you're both 14 it would be pretty normal. But if you're adults, then I guess you've entered the 'friendzone'

[Nice Lover Boy]

What about religious people? I understand most of them don't believe in sex before marriage but the kissing part?
We are both adults, I don't date anyone who is not an adult. I tried to go in for the kiss but nothing happens. Should I bring it up? Isn't kissing important about two adults liking each other?

[basilandthyme]

post deleted. Superceded by my next post.

[basilandthyme]

>>At first, she texted me first. But now I always initiate and put more effort into it all. She just replies in small context now so this does worry me.
No sex. In fact, we haven't even kissed because she said it's part of her religion. ( do we have any religious posters here to confirm this???)
Longest amount of time without contact was probably 1 day. But then I send her a text if I don't get anything from her. I know, I shouldn't but she her family issue is that her cousin is in critical illness condition just the last few weeks(it's true) so now I have to show her that I am there for her through this difficult time but she doesn't seem to vent or look for me for that comfort or for me to hold her during her rough time. <<

Ah ha. Here is what I was looking for - taken from another thread.

I know you said that you're an adult, but between this thread and the one where you're timing the delay in her text responses, I'm thinking that you're no older than 16.

The long and short of it is this: if you want a girl who kisses you, then this isn't the girl for you. It doesn't matter why she doesn't kiss you (religion or otherwise) all that matters is that you date a person who's actions and beliefs are a good match for you.

[basilandthyme]

Ok, I just looked up your history and you're clearly older than 16.

Tell me, how did you end up in a situation where you're dating a girl who has no physical interest in you and not know what to do about it? I mean the fact that you're wanting verification of her religious attitude is alarming in itself!

I ask this with respect: Do you have social skill disorder like Aspergers Syndrome? If we know that you're really struggling with understanding the unwritten social rules which go with dating, we can give advice better tailored to your situation.

[Nice Lover Boy]

Disorder, no. I've been dating a lot and never had issues until now. I enjoy kissing and she told me she still likes me but that was a while ago like 2 weeks before christmas.

[basilandthyme]

So I ask again, how can a grown man not know what to do in this situation?

[neha12]

According to me, 2nd or 3rd time is enough for kissing only.