I'm in a relationship, the relationship wasn't/isn't going so well but we've come to terms at the moment. While the relationship was on the outs I met someone, nothing ever happend, but we both wanted (and still want to) be more than friends/get closer.
However my relationship didn't end so how do I tell this other person, "yes I like you, yes I'm still attracted to you, but we can't right now?" with out sounding stupid or like I tried to play him. To close the door between us but know I can still open it again if my relationship does fail.
He's not comfortable with doing anything while im in a relationship and well really neither am I.
He voiced his attraction and I acted on it, tell him we needed to hang out. So it was my idea to start things up (thinking my relationship was ending) We made plans for this sunday, well my relaitonshp didn't end. and now I've got to canccel on him, and I don't know how to say what I need to say.
So how do i close the door without locking it? Where if we do break up I haven't lost this chance.