How many of you are willing to do this for your GF?

[surfhb2]

Yeah, it is but it shouldn't be a requirement; when one or both start EXPECTING things, then it gets ugly.

Yes, I am. What of it? Although, need I remind the forum that men can't be virgins?

It's not about expecting anything.....it's the natural progression of any relationship. Yes....generally, sex is a requirement for a good relationship. LOL

Like I said, it's impossible for you to effectively join this conversation since you have not experienced intimate relations with a woman. Not putting you down, it's just common sense

[Love'sReject]

You can't say authoritatively that it is a natural progression of any relationship. That's essentially saying all women in a relationship should give up their vaginas.

[surfhb2]

You can't say authoritatively that it is a natural progression of any relationship. That's essentially saying all women in a relationship should give up their vaginas.

Jesus Christ! I'm a 43 year old father whos arguing with a virgin about the merits of sexual intimacy in healthy relationships! LOL

I'm out of here....night!

[Love'sReject]

Well, at least you have more sense than HIA, who's like 60 or 70 and arguing with me..LOL.

[searock]

-Pay for dates (90% of them..) I wouldn't want my boyfriend to pay for 90% of our dates.

-No sex (Even though you do try to convince here, but you never force her) What's the point of being in a relationship if you're not having sex (unless it's because of a medical condition or something temporary anyway, AND you've been together for a long time before that)? I want to have sex with my boyfriend. Not forcing a woman to have sex with you just means that you're not a rapist, btw.

-Introduces her to your friends
-Is serious about her
-Always keep your promises and never ditch dates
-Text her daily and ask her about her day

All of these ^^^ are very normal things to do. Any decent person would do these things with his/her partner.

-Initiates most text conversations
-Let her choose where to eat and where to go on dates
-Does almost everything she told you to

^^^ I dunno... I like my men less doormat-y.

-Cooks for her （shes not a good cook) That's cute :-).

-Goes out of your way to help her when she is in need
-Looks up information on flu when she is not feeling well
-Willing to drive 20 minutes just to see her for a little while
-Takes time out of busy schedule to see her

Again, ^^^ normal things.

Information on guy:
Very intelligent, well-raised and well-spoken..knows multiple languages. Good.
Is patient and gentle. Good.
But he is also the type of guy who is willing to go out of his way for his friends... Also good. Why the "but"?

[HeartIsAching]

Well, at least you have more sense than HIA, who's like 60 or 70 and arguing with me..LOL.

He's no younger than I am. Your math skills suck. You're still an idiot.

[fearoflove]

You can't say authoritatively that it is a natural progression of any relationship. That's essentially saying all women in a relationship should give up their vaginas.

Awww...I was disgusted by you till you said this.

[MehicanFather]

Yeah, he's quite the smooth talker. Give up their vaginas, hahaha.

[searock]

He probably thinks of sex as "giving up his penis" LOL... (I know LR, you have double standards. I'm just pulling your leg.)

[MehicanFather]

lol .

[MehicanFather]

Sometimes I really wonder if I'm his real father.

[MehicanFather]

Yay, my new sig works.

[Love'sReject]

He's no younger than I am. Your math skills suck. You're still an idiot.

Bro, you went to high school during the Eisenhower administration..And no, YOU'RE the idiot here.

[Love'sReject]

Wow, I didn't realize relationships are all about sex..Personally, I thought it was about enjoying the other person, not making them a sex commodity but what do I know? (Shut up HIA and/or Mehican..)

[MehicanFather]

A woman is a tedious creature. Sticking it to them is the only thing that makes them bearable. You have a lot to learn, son.