Is this a fair and common practice?

[HeartIsAching]

This is no troll, and I'm not stupid. I used condoms when I was seeing escorts...and it was no fun. It was a really bad time of my life, and i regretted it. I never use a condom when im dating, because i try to know my partner first before having sex. The sex on 1st date was not like we just met. We have known each other for months, and I made a decision that she was minimal risk. I don't have any diseases or anything. I am actually very careful. Condoms are for people who sleep with strangers, which is not the case with me in a relationship. I appreciate real inputs, but stop judging me. There are no angels here. We are all adults. I don't think it's cheating if we are not married yet. I am just exploring, and making sure. Whats wrong with that?

So, you're the only human being on planet earth that can just "tell" if a woman's been exposed to HIV, herpes, syphlis, chlamydia, gonorrhea or HPV? Must be really cool to be you. Personally I'm gonna belly laugh when you come back here crying because your dick's in danger of falling off.

...And if you were so sure that it was alright to be doing what you're doing, you wouldn't be on here asking about it. Unless of course, you didn't really come here to get opinions, but to get your opinion validated.

Have you told the one that you "want to have a future with" that you're banging other women without a condom? Have you told her you're banging other women at all?

[ashley89]

So, you're the only human being on planet earth that can just "tell" if a woman's been exposed to HIV, herpes, syphlis, chlamydia, gonorrhea or HPV? Must be really cool to be you. Personally I'm gonna belly laugh when you come back here crying because your dick's in danger of falling off.

omfggggggggggg dying hahaha belly laugh

[basilandthyme]

I don't think it's cheating if we are not married yet. I am just exploring, and making sure. Whats wrong with that?

In your title, you asked if this is a fair and common practice. The answer is a unanimous NO. Why did you ask the question if you don't want to hear our replies?

[bcgirl]

If u don't think u are cheating, why hide it from your gf? Why keep it a deep, dark secret? She is your friend and gf, why not ask her about this rather than random strangers? The fact that u r hiding it from your gf shows that u know what u r doing is wrong and u know damn well u r cheating.
I hope u meet a girl telling u she is single when in fact has a bf. and I hope that boyfriend is big and tough and kicks your ass. That'll teach you.
What makes u think these girls u are meeting are single? I had a bf and cheated with guys and I told those guys I was single. They had no clue and invited me over to their mamas house and bought me gifts. There are tons of sketchy ppl in this world that have different agendas that look like everyone else. You ain't the only one playing games and if u continue, karma will not be good to u

[smackie9]

Troll and I think I know who it is......

[phantom694u]

Geez..not a troll. Why are you all so hung up on "cheating"? It's not cheating. I just think it's better that all the women didn't know about each other. As for STDs, it's really not that easy to get. As long as you meet women who are educated, raised with class, great career, and intelligence, the chances of her having STDs is close to zero. I don't sleep with bar sluts or strangers.

[Wakeup]

You're the bar slut and stranger... not them.

[ashley89]

Geez..not a troll. Why are you all so hung up on "cheating"? It's not cheating. I just think it's better that all the women didn't know about each other. As for STDs, it's really not that easy to get. As long as you meet women who are educated, raised with class, great career, and intelligence, the chances of her having STDs is close to zero. I don't sleep with bar sluts or strangers.

you should look up some of the statistics of STDs... just because a person has a good job and was raised well doesn't mean they are perfect. social class, money, intelligence and job status have nothing to do with who someone sleeps with. your logic is so flawed it's almost amusing

[basilandthyme]

Geez..not a troll. Why are you all so hung up on "cheating"? It's not cheating. I just think it's better that all the women didn't know about each other. As for STDs, it's really not that easy to get. As long as you meet women who are educated, raised with class, great career, and intelligence, the chances of her having STDs is close to zero. I don't sleep with bar sluts or strangers.

You clearly don't accept any opinion which doesn't agree with your own. So what was the purpose of starting this thread?

[phantom694u]

you should look up some of the statistics of STDs... just because a person has a good job and was raised well doesn't mean they are perfect. social class, money, intelligence and job status have nothing to do with who someone sleeps with. your logic is so flawed it's almost amusing

affluent and educated straight people just dont get stds. its a fact.

[Maple1714]

affluent and educated straight people just dont get stds. its a fact.

Oh wow....you are a troll for sure. This post is stupid. Don't you know that something like 85% of sexually active people have some strain of HPV? It can lead to cancer and infertility in women...

[ashley89]

affluent and educated straight people just dont get stds. its a fact.

LMAO... you are highly uneducated if you really believe that. but ok, keep going on doing what you're doing, clearly you know more than any of us here which makes me agree with basilandthyme, why did you come here asking for advice if you have all the answers yourself?

[HeartIsAching]

He's a troll.

[ashley89]

He's a troll.

I'm starting to think the same... both threads should be closed at this point