Advice about women who use vibrators

**boofywantabone** · 03-02-13, 04:42 AM

Hi im new to having a relationship with a female who owns a vibrator and uses this while im away. Im asking the audience their opinions both female and males.

By my own admission im having an issue with it more so when i visiting her at home and not when im not there.

Why do women need a Vibrator? Is it the lazy guide to masturbation? Knowing that my girlfriend can at any time can just go for the VB (Vibrator) instead of asking for sex creates an issue for me.

I need help in trying to understand!

**Wakeup** · 03-02-13, 04:47 AM

Have you asked HER why she would rather buzzzzzzz then have you get her off? Do you get her off? Can she orgasm without the buzzzer? More.Info.Needed.

**boofywantabone** · 03-02-13, 04:52 AM

She doesnt use it while im there, that i know of, and yes i have no problems making her get off with out the buzzer. we have been open about it, as in watched her once play with herself. Any other infomation required?

**Wakeup** · 03-02-13, 05:14 AM

By my own admission im having an issue with it more so when i visiting her at home and not when im not there.

Does that not indicate that she does it when you're there too?

She doesnt use it while im there,

Okay, so she mastubates when you're not there to do her. Which leads to the question if you're not there, how can she "just ask for sex"

Knowing that my girlfriend can at any time can just go for the VB (Vibrator) instead of asking for sex creates an issue for me

Sorry, maybe someone else will answer your contradiction.

**smackie9** · 03-02-13, 05:17 AM

What difference does it make...you guys masturbate to porn, or if you get a hard on you don't like to waste it.

Leave her be....it doesn't matter whether she uses her hand, shower head, or a cucumber...it's her private time.

**Wakeup** · 03-02-13, 05:18 AM

Yea... Leave her and Capt'n Cucumber alone, ya hear. lol

**smackie9** · 03-02-13, 05:22 AM

Well it is inexpensive, organic and compostable....very environmentally friendly!

**Wakeup** · 03-02-13, 05:24 AM

Yea... just don't be putting it back in the fridge crisper after a "date".

That would give a whole new meaning to "tossed salad"

**boofywantabone** · 03-02-13, 05:53 AM

Why do women need a vibrator? why cant they just use there hands like guys do?

**Guybrush** · 03-02-13, 05:56 AM

What is the problem? Are you jealous about a piece of plastic?

**smackie9** · 03-02-13, 06:12 AM

Originally Posted by boofywantabone

Why do women need a vibrator? why cant they just use there hands like guys do?

Think about it. We are made differently for one thing...fingers are not like a penis and the vibrator gives us a different type of intense orgasm. We like different sensations too you know. Have you not heard of the fleshlight? Maybe you should buy yourself one of those and give it a try.

And we don't "need" to have one, but it's a nice alternative.

**Wakeup** · 03-02-13, 06:27 AM

Did you know that at one time (prior to the vibrator being invented) Doctors used to book appointments to masturbate women to orgasm in order to get rid of "the vapors" and stress, and "female hysteria"? It was a young doctor that was getting hand cramps that introduced the first vibrator to women, whose husbands couldn't (or wouldn't due to selfishness) take the time to make their wives orgasm.

Here: have a read.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vibrator_(sex_toy)

**Guybrush** · 03-02-13, 06:35 AM

Originally Posted by Wakeup

Doctors used to book appointments to masturbate women to orgasm in order to get rid of "the vapors" and stress, and "female hysteria"?

"Young woman, the only cure I can think of is masturbating you."

Well played, victorian era doctor. Well played.

**HeartIsAching** · 03-02-13, 06:56 AM

Nah... not really. Can you imagine how frustrated they were? Can you imagine how frustrated their WIVES were?! Poor things.

**Wakeup** · 03-02-13, 07:17 AM

heehee ^^^^

Actually, hubby and I just recently watched the movie "Hysteria" which was where I got that info and how to google to get you to the link. It was actually quite an interesting (and humourous) piece of fluff.

The "young" doctor was fired from the practice of the older doctor that did most of the masturbating. The reason for his firing was his hand cramped up and the poor whipper snapper failed to bring an older bitty to "paroxysm." It was after his firing that he and a friend came up with the idea of using his friend's invention, an "electric feather duster" on the women. Good stuff... lol

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