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    Family thinks its all my responsibility

    Well my bf braved the night in a house like 20 degres.. His mom getting evicted he dont wanna go stay with her and her bf cause he said its my responsibility to get him out before the end of the month he staying alone no water now the gas heat got shut off... I got credit cards to pay off cant miss a payment and he and his mom and his gma satid its my responsibility to sacrafic all my money to get him into a apartment with me..Plus this dude said I still better get him the 2 xbox games i promised to him a couple months ago.. they come out march and i told him i could bairly afford getting the apartment started let alone get those games still.. he dont drive or work.. is this all my responsibility.?

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    You should have posted this in your previous thread, by the way.

    And no, it's not your responsibility at all.

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    your bf is a bitch.

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    It's HIS responsibility to find work and somewhere to live. It's not yours and not his family's
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Drop the looser and don't look back.

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    if i were him, he should have helped his mom by finding work.
    He should be less worried about his games, which have got him no where.
    As much as i love gaming, i need to work and focus on my schooling.
    I also am doing it for my girl, so we have a brighter future, and if it doesn't work out for the two of us, at least I'll have a solid foundation to live alone better.

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    God every year I see more girls taking care of their loser boyfriends. Most the time its very attractive girls with thugish looking guys too. I hate to generalize, but it really makes me sick.

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    This guy is a loser OP. Why are you letting him leech off you? Forget him-you can do better. He sounds like a little 12 year old boy. Time to grow the f up and start looking after himself. Tell him to get stuffed!

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    Yes it is your responsibilty. You did something before and now people are used to that and expecting you to help. But when something is expected rather than apreciated then you have to stop doing it. I know its hard but dont do things that you dont want to.

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