Masturbation.

[bearz]

The only time it should be an issue is when it affects your relationship and your partner.

[rob1984]

Oh and if you really do "know ALL men" shouldnt you have been able to preempt and maybe prevent the things that happened between you and your wife????

Tassy i have no idea where masterbation and a guy going after my wife are the same thing. I will say it again.. All men who masterbate will use porn.

[michelle23]

That is not true Rob lol. If you think you "need" porn to wank-that is addiction.

[HeartIsAching]

I love how you continually attempt to impose your will on other people regarding this.

[VincenzoG91]

I watch porn, where do I fit into this scenario? hahaha

According to Michelle, you are apparently both a dude and a porn addict, because no normal people watch porn.

[michelle23]

I never said that Vince. And HIA I simply said what Rob said about ALL is not true.

Just because you don't agree with my opinion-does not mean I am not allowed to have one.

[ashley89]

According to Michelle, you are apparently both a dude and a porn addict, because no normal people watch porn.

HAHAHA damn, guess I need to re-evaluate my life at this point!

[ashley89]

so funny how smackie specifically said she didn't want this to turn into a debate about porn addiction but that's immediately what happened. classic

[ashley89]

I don't think it's abnormal to watch porn and masturbate. sometimes it's not as easy to fantasize things in your head and people want something visual to help them... nothing wrong with that. I do believe girls who get upset and worked up over it are insecure, they assume just because their boyfriend isn't having sex with them at that ONE moment it means they aren't attracted to them anymore. it's ridiculous. you can be in a loving, committed relationship with someone and still get attracted or turned on by something/someone else, it doesn't mean the guy is going to act on it. if you think all guys who are in relationships don't look at other girls or think they're pretty you're living in a fantasy world. as long as he isn't going out and doing something with them, it shouldn't matter. it's asinine to think that just because a guy looks at porn to masturbate he's an addict. I watch it a few times per week and use it to masturbate, and I by no means consider myself a porn addict.

[smackie9]

I don't think it's abnormal to watch porn and masturbate. sometimes it's not as easy to fantasize things in your head and people want something visual to help them... nothing wrong with that. I do believe girls who get upset and worked up over it are insecure, they assume just because their boyfriend isn't having sex with them at that ONE moment it means they aren't attracted to them anymore. it's ridiculous. you can be in a loving, committed relationship with someone and still get attracted or turned on by something/someone else, it doesn't mean the guy is going to act on it. if you think all guys who are in relationships don't look at other girls or think they're pretty you're living in a fantasy world. as long as he isn't going out and doing something with them, it shouldn't matter. it's asinine to think that just because a guy looks at porn to masturbate he's an addict. I watch it a few times per week and use it to masturbate, and I by no means consider myself a porn addict.

Here! Here!

[rob1984]

agree with ashley.... and I still stand that ALL men watch porn, or have alot at some point in their relationship... Tassy. you bringing up my wife getting taken advantage of has nothing to do with masterbating..just proves I was right and you had nothing to say. Tassy and Michelle are too insecure to give an opinion. everyone should just skip their post

[Love'sReject]

even though most porn is disgusting beyond belief, it is pretty much true.

[ashley89]

Here! Here!

thank you thank you! ;]

[Wakeup]

I never said anything about that Rob. Yes all men probably have watched it at some point. but Some have no real interest in it and only watch it out of curiosity a couple of times.

And I think we are talking about addiction here wakeup.

I have never heard a woman complain saying "oh he watches it every now and again if I want to get an early night and hes bored" or "he watches porn when I have my period" all the woman iv heard complain say things like "hes over 200 videos on his phone, he locks himself in the bathroom for hours, we haven't had sex for a month, when we do have sex he seems distracted and not into it, he cant get it up properly with me and cant cum without it"

Most the woman who complain have good reason to ^^^

I think you'd do well to re-read the opening post.

[ashley89]

Please no going off about porn addiction. This is just about an average habit.

And I think we are talking about addiction here wakeup.

lololololol