Hey,

This is a bit of a personal and embarrassingly open question... but...

I understand that many people think watching "porn" and getting off to it is acceptable in a relationship, but what about say, nude photos of people uploaded to websites like 4chan? Like "ex gf" threads and peoples leaked "self taken" photos.

I mean, my girlfriend says she hates people that would get off to girls facebook photos and the sort, and after I got off to nude photos of girls on 4chan I started to worry that I may have done the same thing that she hates.

I didn't mean it because I didn't realise that would constitute as the same thing, and now I'm worrying about it. If it is wrong should I tell her I did it - because now I realise it might have been wrong I wouldn't be doing it again.

Is what I did unfair to my girlfriend? Because if it is I feel so unbelievably bad about it as I don't want to do anything intentionally that would hurt her. And if this does constitute as the same thing then I pretty much know she'd break up with me if I told her.

What do yous think?