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    am I sexually unattractive? Be HONEST

    Ive always suffered from low self esteem since popular guys said I was ugly when I was 13, Im 22 today and feel insecure with girls cause of it, always occupying my mind. Give me a honest answer please.

    do you honestly think I am sexually unattractive or/and repulsive? Thinking of plastic surgery maybe, after saving some money ..

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    You look normal, nothing wrong with you.

    If you do decide to get plastic surgery, THEN you might be unattractive.

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    Nothing wrong with you

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    You don't look horrible or anything. Not really my type but some girls may even find you kind of sexy. Add in some badass personality and charisma in there and you will be good with the girls.

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    Its your approach towards women that make you unattractive.. if you learn to be confident, most of the times your looks do not matter as much... I think my wife is a good looking woman and she said you look good.. so there you go. she's roughly your age

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    i think you look great. those lads were prob jealous of you. try to boost your confidence and scrap the idea of sergury.

    you definately dont need to change your appearance. you just need to believe your attractive thats all.

    insecurity is unnattractive-boost your self esteem and then just be yourself. youll meet a nice girl

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    Thanks for the answers. Yeah Its true that i have terrible confidence, with the girls. Thing is, I have great confidence in sports and fighting (I have done MMA for 5 years) and Im very self assured and confident in that. I also checked my testosterone levels cause I was feeling weird about my social insecurity, it showed I have way above average levels of testosterone so its not really anything genetic, so its probably just my self image ****ing it all up, I dont know how to work on in tho.

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    go find some info on David D'angelo.. he thought me everything I needed to know about women and how to be confident. When I hit the friend zone in high school lol.. Good Luck

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    If I were your age, I'd think you look sexy. Prefer the short hair on you.
    Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.

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    Thanks for advice. Ive noticed that alot of girls, especially in night clubs seems to get .. like "shy" when I approach them, its like they get self consious or something so its something Im doing wrong and I dont know what, maybe its my general vibe or something like that

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    maybe they just like you. ask for her number

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    Quote Originally Posted by rob1984 View Post
    go find some info on David D'angelo.. he thought me everything I needed to know about women and how to be confident. When I hit the friend zone in high school lol.. Good Luck
    That guy is so gay.lol

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    If you're into Vanilla Ice looks a likes ....maybe
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    nah you're fine, I like the short hair too! definitely don't get plastic surgery, people become too obsessed and end up looking 10x worse than they did originally!

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    215+ Pounds // 180 (Current) // GIRLFRIEND of 2 Months
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    Look at my pictures, and see that your features are
    way better then mine, but I stayed confident, even
    though at 215, when i first asked my current girlfriend out.

    Been staying positive throughout our relationship,
    even if it has turned into something long-distance.

    Will it last ? Time will only tell, and
    depends on her situation in Poland.

    If it doesn't, i'll have fond memories of her, as she
    was my first love that i clicked almost instantly.
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