100th post -- learned a lot from this forum about myself

[Kromat83]

Basically, started to figure out what i want out of life.

I want to love someone to the full extent, but have to make
sure they see a future with us together.

I am going into my 30s, so I don't want a negative person in my life,
as i don't need to waste time on something that isn't certain.

I am thinking positive about any situation, as it's an experience that
you learn from, and will make you a stronger person.

Motivated to keep exercising, so i have more energy in body and mind.

Focusing on school, to finish the last 2 courses, and start my real estate career.

About my current girlfriend, we'll see how things are in August.

Will it keep going into 2014?, atm i'm not too certain and if she keeps delaying what we might have and
not listening to what i have to say, when i am being optimistic, I will just have to decide for myself
and not share my love for her anymore.

I know that i am thinking a lot differently right now and it will suck if
I'm alone again, but i would need to move on and focus on what i have
here in this country, and find a partner that i can love for decades to come.

Too many people are afraid of what they don't know, and would rather
live in comfort, even if it's not the right place for work, then find somewhere
where they can be happy, with their job and residence.

[pcmaster]

Its great that you know what you want in life and actually get of your ass to go for it. I believe now you have new respect for yourself and nothing can really stop man on mission.

[Kromat83]

I have a 5 year plan of what I'd like to accomplish.
You have to know what you want in life ASAP.
One thing I hate about women, is that they always think they are right and and want to do things
their own way, even though the suggestion you proposed is way better then what they planned.
I am trying to get her out of her struggling situation, she's too afraid and stuck up.
Sometimes the fight isn't worth it, if the person won't listen.
Here's hoping to a happy life in Canada for the next few decades.

[pcmaster]

Best you can do is be patient and keep the dream alive. Nothing good in life comes fast and sometimes you just have to hold on a little longer to sucseed.

The thing about women - they cant go back in the lifestyle. Next time she visit you make her feel like at home. For example I would get her liblary card,canadian sim card to be able to stay in touch with friends fitness club membership(get one for yourself too if you dont have it), cinema club card, indroduce with some canadians and local polish people - make her feel like she belong. Even get her a job just to prove how easy is to get one. Give her all the love thats inside and cook a beautiful breakfast.

Then she finally would realise how much easier is to dream in country like Canada.