Alright fellas, tell me just whats going on in your heads!

[BlackPhase]

So there is this guy friend who is a few years younger, we only ever hang out alone, get to know each other sort of thing and no we have not had sex. I have had a hard time trying to figure out if he likes me or not.. he seems interested and will want me to come over the day after i had just been there and talk to me often online but then will randomly not talk to me for no apparent reason. He always comes back as if nothing's up and never says anything about it.. why is this happening? I never question him about it because i don't want to be too pushy and scare him off. Seeing as how we are just friends at this point and i am trying to not give anymore than he is.. for all i know is he unsure of where he stands with me as well.

[Cerby]

Probably, he might be intimidated because you're older. So you can try one of two things. 1) Invite him over, leave him in the living room and go to your bedroom, put on your most revealing lingerie, and then give him a lapdance with a complete happy ending. Or 2) Just ask him if he is interested in you as more than a friend.

I personally like 1, but you might be better off to try option 2 first.

[BlackPhase]

haha, sounds like a good idea.. but i don't think i am quite bold enough to do that to someone i am not comfortable with. I am kinda shy..

[Cerby]

haha, sounds like a good idea.. but i don't think i am quite bold enough to do that to someone i am not comfortable with. I am kinda shy..

Yea, that is why I suggest you just ask him. As a guy, if a girl were to ask me that and I was interested, it would really make it easy for me (if I were too shy to make the move myself). And if I wasn't interested, I'd jsut say "no thanks" and continue on like it never happened.

So I again suggest you just bring it up casually and see if he wants to step it up a bit.

[BlackPhase]

Thanks, guess i need to grow a pair. haha

[Cerby]

Thanks, guess i need to grow a pair. haha

There isn't much less you can do other than just wish for it to happen, but in my experience, that is how you miss opportunities. You have to be willing to take a bit of a risk for a result, and simply asking is the easiest way.