So, should I? I am 23, he is 34.
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21-03-13, 03:48 AM #1
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Should I go out with a guy who is a decade older than me?
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21-03-13, 03:50 AM #2
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It depends on how mature you two actually are, you might be closer than you think. I don't see a reason why you shouldn't at least get to know him.
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21-03-13, 03:56 AM #3
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Any males on here who have dated a female way younger than they are? Please share experience and thoughts.
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21-03-13, 03:57 AM #4
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I gave up the last girl I had something with as soon as I turned 18 cuz she was 16, I think...That sucked.
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.
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21-03-13, 04:00 AM #5
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Well that was stupid.
Originally Posted by Love'sReject
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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21-03-13, 04:01 AM #6
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If you're sensible about it, what have you got to loose? Originally Posted by fearoflove
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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21-03-13, 04:08 AM #7
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Stupid because it isn't wholly relevant or stupid that I had to drop her because of her age? Originally Posted by basilandthyme
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.
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21-03-13, 04:09 AM #8
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If u like him and trust him-you can go on a date. I dont see any harm in getting to no each other but if uv met him online-be safe. Take necessary precautions like meeting in a public place a few times first surrounded by people, and type his name into google etc to do a check on him, make sure hes not married or anything or has kids etc.
Be cautious and wary and dont jump into anything too soon. After a few dates-try to meet one or two of his friends to suss out if hes genuine
good luck.
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21-03-13, 04:10 AM #9
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Ya, I have no problem just meeting the guy. A few things he says seem kind of suspicious. This is on POF (free site), he says he is a systems architect, flies private planes sometimes, and he puts up a few pics of himself that looks as if it has been professionally done or fake, and he wants to see more pics of me but refuse skype.
Don't know if he is bullshitting me or what.
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21-03-13, 04:12 AM #10
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..that's kinda scary. I think there's an unwritten rule for online dating about if you have a bad hunch, it's better to follow it. I am sure you can easily find another date without any potential red flags, fearoflove.
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.
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21-03-13, 04:29 AM #11
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That's true. Although, he seem honest in other aspects.
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21-03-13, 04:44 AM #12
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If he wont skype u first dont do it. It sounds very dodgy to me. Follow ur instincts.
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21-03-13, 04:45 AM #13
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Flying private planes sometimes and using free dating site dont make much sense.
Where did your jewish guy went?
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21-03-13, 04:46 AM #14
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stupid that you dropped her because of her age. 16yo girl and 18yo boy can actually be a very good match. I spent a couple of years dating a guy who was 3 years older than me when I was a teen. While we didn't have what it took to be together forever, we certainly shared some great times together. Originally Posted by Love'sReject
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
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21-03-13, 04:50 AM #15
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The dude sounds like a dude.....move on.
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