Advice on Dating a Stripper

[Starnique]

Michelle, where are you getting these views and info from? Everybody doesnt think like you and just because they dont doesnt mean that they have some sort of issue.

Where I dance at is more like a club, its a strip club but its so big that people come to hang out including females because its more like a club. People go for the excitement, the fun and a few drinks. How can you say that the customers have issues? Seriously? Explain that to me.

[smackie9]

Of course there being watched lol. The owners of these clubs need protection or dirt that they can use against any politicians, police etc so they can get away with their iligitimate dealings. They all have bent coppers etc on their payroll.

And they will use their photographic evidence to blackmail people if they need to.

I dont understand y people wud even wana go there to be honest. Genuinly think the cusyomers have issues.

wow you watch too much TV

[Starnique]

You probably picturing a little shack with weird men and women just strutting around. You need to youtube King of Diamonds, Miami or Onyx Atlanta so you can get a bigger view, its more like a regula. Im not giving out who I am but Im just saying you need to research.

[Starnique]

wow you watch too much TV

I was thinking the same thing. lol

[michelle23]

Im talking about the shady places that do allow prostitution. Not a nightclub where they have male and female dancers.

Men who go there to get VIP do have issues

[dem862]

Well according to some people on here "theres no touching" buti didnt believe that. So stripper is just a nice word for a prostitute then. Some men are obviously quite desperate. Just saying..

Oh grow up. This has been going on for thousands of years. I've never seen a woman walk out of divorce court saying she didn't deserve any money. If you're in a stable-for-now relationship, good for you. But when you've been around the block a time or two, you understand what it's really all about. Jesus himself spent time in the company of a prostitute. Was he desperate? I think not. The desperate men are the ones who expect to get laid for nothing and think if you gotta get married to do it, so be it.

[michelle23]

Keep telling yourself that dem if it makes u feel better

[pcmaster]

I've never seen a woman walk out of divorce court saying she didn't deserve any money.

Ha ha ! That reminds the old saying - all womens are whores - some are free, some costs money but in the end they all are whores.

[smackie9]

Like porn, strip clubs are for entertainment. I've been to a few in my day and I think they are a lot of fun. I've seen a few ladies get lap dances too, to get their BF all excited.

When my husband was installing cameras at a club, he was surprised to see a lot of the guys don't even pay attention to the strippers because the club has arcade games, and they were busy with that lol.

[smackie9]

Ha ha ! That reminds the old saying - all womens are whores - some are free, some costs money but in the end they all are whores.

I'm the one that owns the house......If he leaves, financially I have a lot to lose......I feel for you guys I really do. Women can be vultures.

[michelle23]

If you get a divorce than you are equally entitled to half. I dot see how getting whats rightfully yours as being whorish. Would you rather she was homeless?

Men who say sit like that are bitter and twisted. "poor me" well y dont u be more careful who you marry then so you dont have to walk through a divorce court. Oh and treat ur woman right may help too!

[smackie9]

I agree whatever was accumulated during the marriage should be 50/50, BUT assets that were accumulated before that marriage IMO should be exempt. That is why prenups are so important. It's to make sure both parties are protected.

[smackie9]

Michelle divorces happen for many different reasons, and we can never predict what's going to happen. Even if we do choose right, life will happen and things can end. AND it's not always the husband's fault. I have seen women just flip out and drive up depts on credit cards, have affairs, etc when they had caring devoted husbands. People change and just grow apart......this is noticeable usually after the kids move out, and they are left staring at each other wondering what happened. I have seen good marriages end too, and both just remain friends, and are quite happy about it.

[PradaChanel]

My little sister is a dancer so therefore Im on the fence with this one. Shes a good girl for the most part so I dont really judge unless they doing all that and have nothing to show for it. Then again you have lawyers, doctors, politicians etc that have issues as well and is desperate so its not all about the strippers, its all about making the money but not letting the money make you. Some strippers are really good at it and its all about money and no shady business so its not a big deal.

[michelle23]

I no smackie. Im just saying divorce is too easy these days and many people would rather have an affair or pay for sex than fix their marital problems. I no it works both ways. It could be the man or woman responsible for the marriage ending or it could end on good terms. Shit happens, life doesnt work out the way we plan. I totally get that.

The only thing that bothers me is that some men say shit like that "we always pay for sex in some ways" thats bollox. A mutual relationship where you both love and respect each other-sex is part of that love and respect and has jack shit to do with money.

Sure some women use sex as a weapon. But the only answer is to dump her and find a better woman. Men can be just as guilty