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[michelle23]

Hire a private investigator and find proof

[bcgirl]

The best thing Jen can do on her part is to continue teaching her son good values and morals. Her son will eventually go to school where he will be influenced from outside peers etc. her son will watch cable tv that depict women, sex and violence. By the time her son has reached puberty he will discover porn on the Internet and probably watch it on a regular basis every chance he gets and we all know how degrading of women the loads of porn online are. So although his father is a huge role model in a kids life, his mother is as well and so is his peers and all outside sources like tv and porn etc. most Likely the kid will never witness his father f#cking girls on a regular basis. But certainly once he reaches puberty he will talk to friends at school about sex, he will go online to discover sex and porn. He may get twisted ideas about the opposite sex like women should take it up the butt, orgies are cool, big fake tits are sexy... The list can go on. It's jen's job as a mother to educate her son about sex and the opposite sex because he will most likely learn it from his surroundings at school, friends, tv, media more so than his father. So I would be more concerned with what's going on in the media the new age of social media and Internet etc. than his perverted dad. Make sure your son will never fall into some perverted predators like your ex wanting to cybersex with him and wanting naked webcam pics.

[DieselX]

In my opinion, you should really move on, and try to find another decent guy. You said he thinks that what he`s doing it`s normal, therefore i can assure you that you won`t change him, or his behavior not in a billion years, because he doesn`t see where the mistake is...try to move on, for the sake of the kid, and for your happiness, don`t be blind, don`t ruin your life with such an asshole, it clear he doesn`t give a rat`s ass about anything but himself.

[Zulnex]

Why on earth does he think that his actions are normal? His actions are immoral and disgusting in every possible way. Truly a sad excuse for a human being.
Looking for an experienced attorney and getting away from this awful man is very important. You and your child deserve to have a wonderful life.
I will pray for you.

[michelle23]

The best thing Jen can do on her part is to continue teaching her son good values and morals. Her son will eventually go to school where he will be influenced from outside peers etc. her son will watch cable tv that depict women, sex and violence. By the time her son has reached puberty he will discover porn on the Internet and probably watch it on a regular basis every chance he gets and we all know how degrading of women the loads of porn online are. So although his father is a huge role model in a kids life, his mother is as well and so is his peers and all outside sources like tv and porn etc. most Likely the kid will never witness his father f#cking girls on a regular basis. But certainly once he reaches puberty he will talk to friends at school about sex, he will go online to discover sex and porn. He may get twisted ideas about the opposite sex like women should take it up the butt, orgies are cool, big fake tits are sexy... The list can go on. It's jen's job as a mother to educate her son about sex and the opposite sex because he will most likely learn it from his surroundings at school, friends, tv, media more so than his father. So I would be more concerned with what's going on in the media the new age of social media and Internet etc. than his perverted dad. Make sure your son will never fall into some perverted predators like your ex wanting to cybersex with him and wanting naked webcam pics.

The answer to that is not to give a teenager a computer in his room obviously-some parents are dumb asses and to get them involved in sports etc so they dont spend all their time alone with their dick becoming obsessed or addicted to porn. That's probably what happened to the OPs ex. Spending hours and hours as a teenager alone playing with himself each day instead of getting out socializing and meeting people and learning what is normal behavior.

My bf never had a computer. He spent more time out of the house working and hanging out with friends as a teenager and a lot of time with his mum and brothers and he has a very healthy approach to sex and relationships. Im not saying he never watched porn. He probably did every now and again but he doesn't watch it now. The earlier they are exposed to it and the more they watch it-the greater chance of addiction and young lads growing up obsessed with it-normally see women as sex objects.

In saying that his younger brother has a computer and hes always saying that their older brother is a ****ed up porn addict coz whenever he borrows his computer-he checks the history lol. The younger one is 17 and claims to have no interest in porn and says that the oldest fella must have issues for staying up all night watching it. so not all teenage boys will get hooked if you give them a computer

[Jen73]

Thanks for all of your comments. Our relationship is dead in the pan - I would never resign myself to a life of misery with a man whO behaves that way. I love our son and my focus is entirely on ensuring that he is a positive influence in his life in years to come. Im not perfect, but I've learnt from my mistakes and will never be making them again.

[michelle23]

Let us no what your going to do and if you need any more advice-were here